Is it normal to not ever have a girlfriend by 18?

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Hello, i am 17 to turn 18 next week. I have never ever had a girlfriend that is why i feel pathetic and very very depressed. I am feeling very bad but don't tell me it is normal to make my mood better. Just be honest. Is it normal? I mean i feel terrible, i haven't kissed a girl or made out etc... I feel like a big big loser and i am deeply depressed about it.

FYI: I haven't got rejected ever either.

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  • webjock
    13 years ago

    I am thirty-seven and still have not had a girlfriend yet.

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  • ven067
    13 years ago

    Of course you might see this as strange if you see many other people kissing and stuff but I assure you this is normal. I've never had an official girlfriend either and I'm perfectly fine with that, and so are my friends. Nor am I desperate for one or need one at the moment. I wouldn't mind having one but I don't see what the big deal is, besides you're only 18. You still have many more years to go.

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  • RawrzMmm
    13 years ago

    if you've never been rejected or had a girlfriend then you've never asked a girl out, don't feel bad, just find the right girl and ask her out to dinner or something.

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  • here-to-help
    13 years ago

    don't beat yourself up that's perfectly normal, i guess you just haven't met a girl that you haven't felt right with.

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  • Wreckin_ball
    13 years ago

    i think what you need to be thinking about is why you havent had a gf or kissed a girl ect.
    it really does depend on your situation i mean if you were very shy and nervous then i could see why meeting a girl would be a problem.
    have you actually tried? i mean REALLY tied?
    girls dont just fall into your lap you know you may have to lay the ground work a bit.
    social networking sites are good for this stuff, ive met plenty

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    I think u should ask a girl out

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  • BunnyRiven33
    10 years ago

    u sure will get one :)

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  • GoraIntoDesiGals
    10 years ago

    Not going to lie here, it's not normal. I was sadly a late bloomer too. (19)

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    why don't u just go to a whore and pay 15 dollars and chicken wing to get laid.

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  • limato
    10 years ago

    You lack confidence. This might sound weird but get really drunk, and try talking the prettiest girl in the room. You'll be surprised from the outcome. Confidence boost

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  • Fartyr
    11 years ago

    It's not normal to admit it.

    Just kidding. I met and dated (& loved) a guy who at 20 had never had a girlfriend or sex and he was the best and nicest guy I ever let get away.

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  • Summerloven
    11 years ago

    It is very very very normal. Trust me

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  • Kharnthebetrayer
    12 years ago

    Dood you gotta hit it

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