Is it normal to not enjoy sexual intercourse?

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I didn’t have sex until five days before I turned 26 and got no enjoyment from it. Since then I’ve had a relationship where I enjoyed none of the sex and two hookups where I failed to maintain an erection. Masturbation has always worked for me so I’m wondering why the real thing does nothing. Could it be because I built up sex in my head so much while I was a virgin that when I finally had it I was disappointed? Or could it be that I’m asexual? I’m attracted to women but a vagina does nothing for me, oral is not pleasureable and anal is something I find disgusting. I wish I could enjoy sex but unfortunately I find it dull and uninteresting plus it drains me of energy.

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64% Normal
Based on 11 votes (7 yes)
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  • Tweeker70
    5 years ago

    Be patient my girlfriend says I am the only guy to ever make her cum.You'll find that person don't give up.

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  • Boojum
    5 years ago

    Stain's comment is kinda crude but amusing, and I think the point is valid.

    There is no legal or moral requirement that everyone must enjoy having sex with another person. If you don't and you're content with that, then that's fine. If you enjoy the company of women, then you might be able to find a woman who likes spending time with you and is happy to know that you don't expect to ever have sex with her.

    There would be a problem if you were desperate to have a fulfilling sexual relationship with a woman, but the feeling I get from your question is that you really don't care that much. The fact you were a virgin until you were twenty-six seems to me to indicate pretty clearly that having a sexual relationship with a woman has always been way down on your list of priorities.

    If you found the sex you have had dull and uninteresting, I'm sure the women did as well. Although most women will say out of kindness that the lack of an erection on the guy they're with doesn't matter, many will find a limp dick a blow to their ego and self-image. So you not pursuing sexual relationships will not only make life better for you, it will avoid women having a disappointing evening.

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  • IrishPotato
    5 years ago

    Anxiety my dude.

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  • [Old Memory]
    5 years ago

    Imagination is always better then the real thing. Ya probably just wanked the shit out of your imagination and now the real thing just does not hold a candle to your fantasies played out in your mind. Or maybe the girls you have had are to ugly.

    Def not normal for a dude your age, could be anxiety.

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