Is it normal to not desire sex anymore?

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I am not depressed. I am the happiest I have been in my whole life and being the best person I can be that I crossed paths with a new healthy partner. I was crazy for him at first, but now I pass out and sleep while he is trying to pleasure me and I don't feel turned on at all.

When I was in a bad place with a bad partner I couldn't sleep without sex at least once a day. I don't know if it's normal, but the happier I am the less I want to have sex. Even with my new boy, he tries to hard to arouse me but nothing works and I end up just letting him get some because I don't want to let him down or make him miss out just cos I am not in the mood. But I must admit, I get bored and my mind wanders and I think about other things after the first 5mins, and I have fallen asleep before by accident. I think I am being a lousy girlfriend but I just don't feel anything, and I am always so tired I don't realize until I hit the bed at anytime of day.

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  • ccjigsaw
    12 years ago

    So you get tired when you hit the bed? Do it on the counter ;) But in all seriousness, that's a bad situation... Things to raise the labido, healthy eating, exercise, and i'm not sure if you just tried sex or what, but let him give you a blow job or something, it'll remind your body that it's pleasurable and maybe you'll get back into the swing of things

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  • being_me
    12 years ago

    im only 20yrs old and the same kinda thing happened to me when i moved in with my partner. it was like because i could get it whenever i wanted, i lost interest. you need space to want it again.

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  • SubParPhalus
    12 years ago

    maybe you need a 'bigger' man

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  • Nokiot9
    9 years ago

    FOCUS ::cunt slap::

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  • TheTodd11
    12 years ago

    Play a game with him; ask him to see how long the two of you can go with out touching, kissing, dry humping. As if the both of you were practicing celibacy... go for as long as it takes, but most important is to challege yourselfs.. try to arose yourselfs without it leading anywhere...then when the time is right f*ck eachothers brains out

    You gotta make him work for it, it will turn the both of you on

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  • barney93
    12 years ago

    i actually heard on the news that the way sex works is the more you get the more you want. this was from a sex expert, she said that if you stop having sex you will lose interest in it all together since we dont even really need it to survive its just both physically and mentally healthy to engage it, she suggested to try to have sex once a day your body will get more used to it and then youll be loving it. like you said you used to do it every day? how long were you sexless between boyfriends? maybe your body just hasnt gotten used to being touched again and it needs to get reminded of how much it really loves it (;

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  • emotionalwreck4ever
    12 years ago

    take some shots and that will loosen you up (:

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  • FecalSplatterChodeMaster
    12 years ago

    You're going through menopause and it's killing your sex drive. Unfortunately this won't stop anytime soon but just let him have it for the sake of keeping him happy.

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  • Cindy_isCool
    12 years ago

    Viagra. All I gotta say.

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  • Anime7
    12 years ago

    Seems like perhaps you're oversexed. Maybe it's not so much that you don't desire sex, it's just that you want a break from it.

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    • CarlBrigsby
      12 years ago

      That, and it's possible that you may want to try it during the day and not before bed.

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