Is it normal to not cry when your dog dies?

I can definitely relate to this, as I've felt this way multiple times. With a family member who passed away, it felt like he had just gone on one of his vacations and would be back. With a horse of mine I had retired with my family, it felt like he was still out in their pasture and I would see him next time I was out there. With a couple of friends, it just felt like we just hadn't seen each other in awhile, but would eventually run into each other.

There was a couple times I either didn't cry or barely cried. We all deal with things differently, and each loss hits us differently. I think the fact that it doesn't feel real yet has a lot to do with it as well.

There are also times when someone is in such bad shape it is almost a relief when they pass, because they are finally free of pain. I have felt this way with the retired horse I mentioned who had always had odd issues I could never figure out and something was just never quite right with, and also with a friend who had chronic COPD and couldn't do anything anymore. Even leaving his house was too much. I also had a family member who was in bad health for a long time, which I felt this way about as well. I was just glad to know they were finally at peace and free of pain.

We process grief in different ways, there is nothing wrong with not crying. I know what you mean about the dreams, my big friendly cat passed away over a year ago and I still dream about him.

Feel honored that your dog loved you enough before her death.

I'm deeply sorry for your loss, please accept my condolences, and understand that everyone grieves differently.