Is it normal to not connect with anyone after divorce

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I was divorced in 2010 and was a bad divorce were we said and used our deep secrets to cut eachother to the heart. I have many other traumas in life. i now find myself not able to connect/trust anyone on an emoptional level and feel like if i do this will happen again. As a result i have turned to escorts for my needs and only am connecting with escorts and strippers and most of the time these are the ones not to trust. I feel this is an abnormal disconnect, the not trusting or letting my guard down as I am convinced this will happn all over again.

Does anyone have this problem, how long did this last and is it normal?

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  • joybird
    12 years ago

    Forgive me but I read the title slightly incorrectly and I thought you were the guy I met recently in a club. He told me he was divorced and as part of the conversation I asked him where his wife lived now.
    He said, "I don't know."
    I said, "What do you mean you don't know? Why do you not know where she moved to?"
    He said, "I never asked."
    "Whaaat?"

    I thought this was the funniest thing I'd ever heard in my life :o) She said, "I'm leaving," he said "OK."
    I did ask, "What do you do with any post for her?
    He said, "I just throw it in the bin."

    :o))

    I think what you are experiencing is normal but hopefully the right girl will come along and break down your barriers.

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  • Dozis
    12 years ago

    I am going to tell you what I think about your situation, but first, you are going to have to give me one of these escorts cellphone number. I am kidding. I can't afford to pay for sexual favors,I usually have to beg for them as for everything else. You must be so desperate,a ruined family,all that pussy, a relationship lasted for years ended, all that pussy.. It must be very hard for you. I wonder how you managed going through it and still turn out to be so insightful.. I mean, all that pussy..
    Sorry.. I am just trying to cheer you up. Is it working?
    I knew somebody who had the same problem, he ended up Becoming a pimp and never having to beg for pussy ever again. I am Just breaking balls. Are you asking me how to keep this from happening? If that's your trouble.. You might wanna make sure you only leave your house with empty testis. Buy yourself a fleshlight and don't go easy on it. It's cheaper than escorts and lasts a lifetime.
    You might also want to stop hanging out with guys who lead you into temptation and develop a sane perversion for whatever turns you on more than hookers and is either readily available or impossible to get. It works either way. Then you'll look at these fine chicks and just go: mm, they are kind of,not as hot as They used to be.
    anyway, I never had this problem, I find these chicks intimidating. I like hesitant chicks best.. the kind of girls who get started all shy and insecure then sort of suck your balls dry as if they are milking you.

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