Is it normal to not care with whom and how i'm losing my virginity?

I wouldn't do it, especially since you're a virgin.

If you don't like him like that anyway, the sex isn't going to be as enjoyable compared to if you were to do it with someone you do like that way. It's a whole different experience.

You're probably a teen or in early twenties, you're young and still can have sex all your life, wait for someone that gives you zero doubts. It'll be your first time which you won't ever forget. So it should be worthwhile and unregrettable.

Just my two cents. (:

Dude I'm a guy and il tell you the frist time is forever FOREVER. You have to be ready and you have fully be prepared choose with whom you want to do it. not your friends. Not your family. You and il tell my expiriance in high school I had sex with my grilfriend and it was her frist time she told me that she had chosen me since grade school 6 th grade. And I was shocked about this because it was my frist time to and I always had this feeling that one day we were going to do it I don't now how but we were. And as I'm scared to show her things and parts of me and it the same for her. We were shy at frist but now its whatever. So yeah make your frist time very sepicial because its a big f***ing deal believe me it's forever.

To be honest I feel as if I'm in the same boat as you deary, I am also female.

Honestly there's a whole lot of pressure put on girls and their virginity. They're expected to lose it young, or else they're a crazy-cat-lady-prude but not too young or else they're a slut. They're expected to do it with someone they love, but get told never marry the only person you've had sex with because there might be better out there. They get told that they have to wait for a guy that loves them while being told that all guys want is sex and they will use you. They get told to make the guy wait and they get told that if they don't have sex they will lose their boyfriends.

Most of these are not helpful opinions, but that's the kind of shit girls are getting told. Sex and losing your virginity has become this super-huge big deal but honestly it's not. Your first time is gonna be awkward, uncomfortable and maybe painful no matter who it's with or the circumstances around it. You might regret it, you might not. Depends how much you care about being a virgin. Do what feels right for you and don't give a shit what some people on a website say is normal.

how old are you? i ALWAYS lick the girls pussy untill she cums before i fuck her. 1 because it makes her wet so it slides in easy and 2 because i love the taste of pussy :p

Recently was a highly publicized case in which a couple, she and him white, made a black child because she had previously a black friend, with whom he had numerous sexual contacts. If you don't want something similar happen to you watch how you lose your virginity.You girls are so bad, you do not know how to made children and especially how to educate them

I Love Sex Sweety and I Dont think you should do it with someone you dont really find attractive or like and please dont do it while your Drunk you wont have Fun that way and you should have Fun when you do it I know If it were Me that you were with I would find it a Great Honor to be Your First I would Love That I think your First one.should be Special Love your so Sweet Love If you want to Private Message me I would Find that A Honor also.

dnt do it .do it with some 1 u loved

I felt exactly the same way.. but to be honest, after I lost it I changed my mind a bit. right now i look back and really don't care for the asshole I lost my v card to. but I kinda would have preferred it was someone else.

JUST REMEMBER ONCE YOU GO YOU CAN NEVER COME BACK

Choose well ull never forget them Never

Do you get turned on by the thought of being slutty? If you do, why not seduce a complete stranger and never see him again?

I'd just do it and not attach any special meaning to it.

having sex for the first time is tricky... you want it to be with someone you trust and care about, but at the same time you want to just get it over with and then never have to face them again.

sex is awkward in general, especially the first few times. once you get the hang of it and what you like it gets better but it takes awhile to figure that stuff out. i see no problem in being 'curious' and testing it out with someone who isn't THE ONE as long as they respect you, you can trust them, and you feel comfortable with them. those are the important things to think about for your first time.

I was exactly the same way. When I was 16 I was still a virgin which was unexpected from my friends. I'm 24 now and let me tell you something.. Youre better off holding out til you find someone you at least like. I gave it away to someone I barely knew just to get it over with.. I have regret. Also keep this in mind.. there are girls in this world that are selling their virginity for 100s of thousands of dollars.. not recommending you to do that but I'm trying to demonstrate how valuable your virginity actually is.

Waiting for marriage and marrying the man you love and waiting till you get married to lose your virginity and have sex proves how much you 2 love each other and therefore you will have no regrets what so ever. I cant wait for that time.

There's no one else? A crush? I would wait but you seem like you just wanna get it over with. I did the same matter of fact. I gave it to the person with the most experience and she happen to live in my neighborhood. We did it at the neighborhood park. I didnt even cum.. :( Sad! It was lame so to say. My next gf a month later was a virgin and I had wished I was too. Only regret I have. Good luck tho. I say,wait and im a guy.

cum give it to me, and you will see what you were missing all this time

I've honestly been considering the worth of virginity myself lately and wondering if it should really even have so much meaning and weight.

But there is one thing I can tell you for sure. I see it like this: out of everything in the world, there are only 2 things of which you can be sure (3 if you have a strong faith) 1)your mind
2) your body
3*) Your God.

I see that our bodies are a gift, personal to us, so much that we identify with them. There's no replacing them- no 'spare' parts. So, having sex with someone, allows them to get so close to you. But not JUST your body (and by extension, your physical well-being), but your emotions.

So think long and hard* before you bestow your virginity to someone. Because you are making yourself open and vulnerable to them.

*yesyeslamepunislame

Yes its normal and yes your gonna want to do it with the first person you can get your hands on but the second your done you are going to regret losing your virginity. Personally my first time was in the back of my car with my girl friend and my best friend in a threesom. In the middle of the woods. And yet somehow someone shows up in a car and almost catches us. Btw our car is tiny and cramped. Most awkward moment of my life I regret it so much and my purity is gone. So hold off on losing your virginity until you find someone special.

Well,you should always have that experience with someone you love and care about. You always remember your first. When i was younger i wasnt so anxious to loose my virginity but was curious to know the feeling. I lost it to someone i knew loved me and someone i loved also. try not to rush into things..HASTE MAKES WASTE.

Don't do it. Wait until you feel it.

Your first love almost certainly won't last long anyway, so why not wait until you meet someone you're a lot more attracted to?

Wait till your married. Im 25 and my fiance is 23 and we're virgins. Our wedding day will be the day we give ourselves completly to each other. This is a one time gift. To whom you give it to needs to be worthy of it. And if they are worthy theyd wait till marriage.

I wouldn't have agreed a few years ago but now that i'm 20, have a non existant social life and haven't had a relationship in over a year I see that way of thinking

Oh your a girl. I clicked normal before I read it :/
Its important for girls, not for men. Make sure you do it with the right person and not some animal like me who would discard you straight after.
Might be important for men though, but I grew up with friends who called you a faggot for going all lovey dovey about it, they just said it dont matter, they were and are womanisers.

I think it is normal to care very much. It should be someone who you care for very much and who loves nd respects you. It ould be better to keep it butif you o not want to please share it with someone you care about and let it be special.

I didn't read your post, I'm just answering based on the title. I was like that when I lost mine which was over five years ago and I regret it tremendously. Put more thought into it.

Sound more like uur worried about maybe hurting his feeling cause u don't like him in a dating way

Most girls regret their first because they weren't in love. but i guess you already knew that..

my advice is to get it over and done with (if you're above 18).. but the sound of your post seems like your a allot younger. Then my advice is to wait it out.

its gonna hurt. you're gonna feel used and regret it. One day you will meet nice guy and bullshit your way out of this story and proberly lie in the process