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I don't like to have sex. i like to masterbate though.
But i don't masterbate all that often as i used to,and i dont watch porn either (porn is disguisting and unrealistic)
i just feel as if there is better things in life than sex
Why is it that this attitude seems to come from young people who have never had sex at all, or certainly not enough experience upon to base such a comment?
Sex may not be the end all and be all of life, but if done right, it's one hell of a lot of fun. Intimacy with another human being is certainly a desirable experience for any normal, healthy person.
Have you been with a partner before that gave you good sex? Maybe you're just getting bad sex from your SO.
It's perfectly normal mate, personally I think the emphasis we put on sex as a species is ridiculous. We're not wild animals our species isn't dwindling we don't NEED sex. At this point it's just pleasure and lust talking, not instinct. Most the time people just do it cause they're bored and can't think of anything else to do.
Wow, I couldn't disagree more! Our libido is biological; if we aren't wanting sex, there's some outside influence altering the desire (stress, history of abuse, medication, psychological disorder, etc.). Saying that it's "just not important" is a coverup for an underlying cause.
You think rape and men oogling after tits and pussy for a few meagre minutes of pleasure is beautiful and necessary for a decent life? Women diddling themselves savagely moaning like retards. I don't need this bullshit to survive day to day. I've not died from not dedicating my life to it, you'd do to learn lessons from that. People have survived much longer than I have without it as well. Every goddamn second enough children are made willingly or not to re-create the human species ten fold on whole new earths. Sure we where all born with libido but it doesn't mean we aaaaall have to engage in sex all the time. That's like saying we all have the capability to fight therefor every 5 minutes you must fight the nearest threat, even if you don't hate him now you might find that you hate him later so punch him anyways for good measure. After all our fight instinct is biological is it not?
Not what I was saying at all! Holy shit did you miss my point! I'm not saying we need more babies (in fact, I'm a strong advocate of birth control and adoption), I'm saying THE URGE TO HAVE SEX is what's biological. I don't want to be a parent, but I am horny on a regular basis. I'm on birth control, so what's the fucking problem? Don't give me a lecture about overpopulation; I don't live underground. I'm also not saying sex is the only important thing, but if it's not important at all, there's a problem somewhere. Let me guess -- you are a staunch religious bastard with a Bible shoved so far up your ass that you can't see any other person's point of view?
Hahahah! No. I fucking hate Christianity nothing but a bunch of lies stitched together, but just because I realize that sex isn't necessary to survive doesn't mean I'm a bible pusher. It isn't my problem that you can't control yourself that you need your ten minutes of pleasure. The reason that sex is even a thing IS to make offspring. That's like saying you like fighting just to fight, just cause you like the feel of your punches on someone else's jaw, not to protect yourself or someone else.
I don't have much interest for it. This is not to say that I don't enjoy fantasising because, I do. It is just not a major priority for me. If I did it, it would have to be with someone I cared about. Also, the idea of me having sex bothers me slightly...
Generally speaking I would say no, it's not normal to be indifferent about sex. However, it's hard to give advice without knowing more about you.
Are you male or female and what age? Were you raised being told sex is wrong or sinful? Were you abused in any way? Are you on an antidepressant or other medication that includes low libido as a side effect? Are you depressed/stressed/experiencing any other psychological disorders?
yeah perfectly normal, we all put emphasis on different things throughout our lives, for some people their sex drive remains strong.
I feel there are better things in life than sex too - until I haven't had it for a long time, I'm horny, and then I think there is nothing better than sex lol