Is it normal to not care about girlfriend telling me what to do.

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Hi, I'm a guy. My girlfriend sometimes tells me what I should and shouldn't do. For example, I love soda. She tells me to only have 3 sodas a week. It seems like I should feel "whipped" from her telling me how many sodas I can have a week. But to me it seems like she just cares about my health and Im happy to comply. Is it normal for a guy to not feel whipped in this situation or a situation like this? Should I feel whipped?

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  • jessicia16
    13 years ago

    i cant stand spinless guys ... maybe you dont mind yourself but , its very un-attractive .. i hope you plan to be with her for the rest of your life.

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  • Bbygirl.
    13 years ago

    You SHOULDN'T feel whipped. She cares about you. & I agree with comment above, just as long as she doesn't take it too far.

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  • ms_funion
    13 years ago

    good for u that you can look at this as a positive and not a negative! (as long as she's not seriously trying to control you)

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  • coolio75650932
    11 years ago

    1.soda cant really harm your health if you eat healthy if you eat veggies fruits grains and meat then SODA DRINKING PARTY!

    2.she wants you to be perfect so she can brag to her friends

    3.slap her in the face and tell her to bend over :3

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  • magpie96
    13 years ago

    You shouldnt feel whipped. I care alot about my boyfriends well being, and i try to help him when i can. as long as its not overly protective, it shouldnt be a problem. because really, what would she be gaining out of your cutting down of the soda pop ? she clearly just cares about your health and wants you to feel the best you can.

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  • Mikael
    13 years ago

    due she loves u cuz shes careing about ur health problems but if ur fatt umm it can be iun a bad way to but it depends on ur emotion how she is saying it to u ..well on u

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    • robbieforgotpw
      11 years ago

      Very articulate.

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  • dan_d8b_dbline
    13 years ago

    My girlfriend only limits me to one soda a day lol! I pretend to get mad about this but really i love it! she says other things too. I love her so much id do anything she told me. then again we're both it love. are yall both in love? otherwise you might just be whipped. does sound like she just cares about you though :)

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  • Assisted
    13 years ago

    it means you love her enough to care what she thinks

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  • almostunreadable
    13 years ago

    I know a lot of friends whose girlfriends tell them what is not good for their health (even to the point of nagging). I think it's a common thing and that you should listen to her. She cares for you and that's cool. She's your ally, not enemy trying to control you.

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