Is it normal to not call someone by their name?

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My sister-in-law changed her first name to one she thought was more suited to her before I met and was introduced to her. Friends and family still call her by her original name. The name she chose is long winded. I for the longest time did not call her by name to avoid the decision on what to call her. At first I did not know her well enough use her original name and felt awkward saying the new one when no one else used it. I still try to avoid refering to her by name cause I'm confused over which one to use. I've known her now for 8 years. IIN?

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    its normal. just call her the name thats more comfortable to her. who cares if no1 eles uses it. Be the only one.(:

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  • deepthought33
    13 years ago

    I'd say it is pretty normal. Can't say I have any advice for you though cuz I do this with a lot of people. What should I call my mother-in-law? My step-father's parents? Certain co-workers? My kid's daycare provider? I assume it is my reserved nature that creates this uncertainty...I'm sure most people just come out and voice the confusion right away so it never has the chance to get awkward.

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  • NymphetsInLove
    13 years ago

    I never address people by their name. I usually just approach them and start talking to them, unless I HAVE to say their name.
    Especially with teachers. I never know Ms. or Mrs.

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    • smellmewherethesundontshine
      11 years ago

      same thing XD

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  • Trekster37
    13 years ago

    Just use YO! I call everyone hey.... Yo! it works like a charm

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  • jhonen32629
    13 years ago

    It's very normal to feel the way you do. Co front her and ask her what you want her to call her.

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