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Is it normal for a twenty-one, almost twenty-two year old man to go over two months without ejaculating? I thought that males had to ejaculate at least a few times per week for sexual health reasons? Like, to replace the old sperm or something?
I heard there's a lowered risk of testicular cancer in males who ejaculate often... but for general sexual health I'd assume that a wet dream would occur if his body had to 'change' his sperm (I have no idea what the technical term is... The thing ccjigsaw mentioned)
It's not an absolute necessity. I mean monks don't do it. Or priests I'd assume since they are supposed to remain abstinent. Of coarse ejaculating/masturbating tends to be one of those things; when you do it once, you'll want to do it again. So if you're already sexually active then the desire should be there...which would make it a bit abnormal. Concerning sexual health, it is good for your prostate, but it doesn't mean you have to do it.
The individual I happen to be talking about is far from being a virgin. Maybe I should have stated that. I'm a female, I haven't had sex in two months either (by choice) but I have masturbated to orgasm a few times. I find it a bit hard to believe that he hasn't.
Eh. Well you know what else is good for male sexual health? Sticking things up your butt and massaging your prostate. Lowers your chances of prostate cancer greatly, but I don't think every guys does that cause it's good for his health. I guess what I'm saying is that's it's normal and like quentari said. He would have a wet dream if it was to the point that his body needed to clear it out. My boyfriend said he used to go a long time without masturbating just to see if he could... Although certain things can effect a mans libido, so if the desire isn't there that could be something he wants to get looked at. A man who has issues getting hard could have heart problems preventing blood flow
Interesting. But wouldn't he know that he had a nocturnal emission? He says that his mind just hasn't been on sex because we haven't seen each other in two months because our schedules conflict, so I guess it is an issue of his libido being low at the moment. I just think it's pretty abnormal for males. Not to be sexist, but I feel that we females can take our minds off of sex and fight our urges better. Not to say we aren't as sexual or anything, we can just suppress our desires easier? I could be wrong lol
He's definitely know if he had a wet dream. It's actually something that fluctuates in either gender. If he's stressed out, his libido will lower. My boyfriend isn't an overly sexual guy. He can be at times, but before he was with me he only ejaculated about twice a week. We've gone a month without doing it once.. poor me. He was stressed out with college and work and didn't desire it. Age can also effect your need. It's not good to fall to deeply into stereotypes cause then you start thinking that all guys need to masturbate etc all the time. It's definitely a big thing for guys on here to say they do it 5x a day, but I guarantee you not every guy is going to need it that often. Plus that tends to be a more younger male trait (Teen age mainly) I'd say he's just in a sexual slump.