Is it normal to not believe your friend?

I was txting with a girl on Facebook. She was awesome...I trusted her with all my heart...than she told me that she is actually is a guy and that he lied to me only because he wanted to be friends....it was kinda weird....we still friends...I don't know who he is...and I'm always in confusion....I don't know what to believe and who to believe anymore...I'm just so LOST

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Comments ( 9 )
  • JCA

    Seriously???!!!!!! Dude listen to yourself!!! Facebook!!! Just delete him! What are ya afraid of?! He isn't going to stalk you if you delete him! Damn! If that is all! Jesus! Reason to delete him: he was lying about his gender in the beginning and there is no F*****g reason to keep him as a friend! Tip: don't listen to anything that he is saying to you! He might be a pedofile!!!!!

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  • Kelaihc

    If you don't like to hert people, hurt them instead.

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  • Sotchi

    That I so creepy and wrong that he lied like that to gain your trust. If you feel bad deleting him, you can 'hide' him- he'll think your still FB friends but you won't see his posts or page anymore. However, by remaining friends with him, you're only sending the message that it's ok to do what he did. You can't always be nice to people. It's ok to set healthy boundaries for yourself- in fact, much more beneficial to you than continuing to people please.

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  • emilydoll

    Ewes isn't that a gross surprise

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  • chick756

    Nothing wrong....I just can't believe him now...coz he was lying to me...I hate him now

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  • wreckd

    Okayyy...so you're a girl. And he was just wanting to be friends? What is so wrong with that?

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  • BoredGuy

    You are confusing the internets with RL.

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  • ScouserMum

    Its only facebook, like JCA said just delete ,i was like you Chick, hated upsetting anyone , even my family , but yanno as ya get older, you gotta learn too think of yaself for once , ya find the nicer you are, people walk all over you , so now im not so nice and now peeps dont like me so much.. specialy family lmao, stop being nice ... just delete if he worries you .

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  • chick756

    I know that I need to delete him...but the thing is...I just can't....I'm kinda person that can't hert others....if I hert someone...I will feel Hella bad....and also I'm afraid if I will delete him...my friends gonna think opposite of me....they know that I'm really nice to everyone....and sometimes I even suffer myself because how nice I am to people....I'm still LOST

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