Is it normal to not believe in love?
I know this makes me sound completely pessimistic, but is it normal to not believe in love?
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I know this makes me sound completely pessimistic, but is it normal to not believe in love?
I think it's something very immature to believe in, after seeing what "love" does to people I don't much believe in it either. I think it's something mostly women believe in ever since they are children, I like to call the "Fairy Tale Princess Complex". I believe people can care deeply about one another, but to add some sort of magical or melodramatic twist to it is really cliche and annoying. If there was such thing as love I believe it would happen without actively seeking it or even acknowledging any sort of connection. I also believe it would be extremely unique and not this shit you see in 99% of all songs, movies and other media who attempt to take your money knowing your childish infatuation with "love".
I would not say it's abnormal but it seems to me you might be trying to put up walls of protection around your heart to keep people from hurting you. Eventually, you could put up such an impassable armor around your heart that you may end up numbing your feelings and not caring about anyone. It's like imprisoning your own heart and it's not much fun. We are humans, and as humans we do experience emotions...in order to feel more satisfaction out of life we have a basic need to love and be loved. Just be extra cautious of whom you give your heart to because not everyone you love will be kind to your heart. Happy loving and good luck finding a kind and loving suitor. Best wishes!
There is no such thing as love exept affection and being attracted to someone at first it feels like it's love but then it becomes custom to be with that person also love fades with time
People grow, and not always in the same direction. It is hard to make love last.
I don't believe in the Tooth Fairy. Who gives a fuck what you believe?