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Is it normal to not believe, or lack faith, in the idea of love? im referring to the type of love between couples.
It would be nice if everyone has a true love but i find it hard to believe.
is this normal.
True bilateral ballanced love does not exists, it is always one of the 2 people involved who gives more "care" to the other. Also in order to really love someone you must accept this person as a whole human being, with everything good or bad about him/her... And thats something almos NO ONE actually really does, we always try to change them the way we would like them to be. In conclusion, youre better single, and give up to that stupud idea of perfect love, that only happens in movies, real life is damn WAY different.
In today's society where all people care about is themselves and sex, yes, true love is really rare (if it even exists anymore)z
youre normal. there are all kinds of love and you can love everyone, not just one person.
find someone you could spend the rest of your life with.
or
find someone you could sit next to on the bus with everyday.
whatever makes you happy.
i hope you find love and happiness :)
Are you single? xD
I found my soul mate and I couldn't be happier with anyone else.
i found my perfect match once...and screwed it up. i didnt realise that breaking someones heart would hurt so much. this was probably because i still had alot of feelings for him but my want for freedom got the better of me. anyway, ive lost pretty much all faith in love now, its totally normal for this to happen, but it doesnt mean its going to last forever
It is normal to feel like that sometimes.
What you don't seem to understand is that love is not this elusive thing that exists out there, waiting for you to find it. The kind of love that keeps people together for a lifetime (the kind that people refer to as "true") is built, from scratch, not found. It starts with a foundation of desire, faith, and most importantly, trust. With enough effort, it can be built almost anywhere. Anyone who simply waits for love will be waiting a very long time.
It's normal, I think most people reach that point at some time in their lives. But true love exists. I have it :)
It's hard to understand it until you actually experience it, which, it seems you haven't yet.
You've may have seen a lot of stuff that people say is love, but it doesn't look like it to you.
Ask anyone to define what it is, and they can't.
But, don't dismiss it completely out of hand.