Is it normal to not be into bdsm, pain, rough sex kind of stuff?

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Why are so many girls into this kind of stuff these days? I've had girlfriends who wanted me to do things like beat them, choke them, or play out "rape" fantasies and power dynamics type stuff (e.g. dom/sub).

I just don't get the infatuation with pain and all this heavy psychological stuff. Why do people find that sexy?

I have lots of other kinks that I enjoy. But they are more about pleasure and being intimate with my partner. E.g. oral, body worship, ass play, toys, playful spanking/biting, mutual masturbation, 69, sex outdoors, teabagging, homemade videos etc.

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  • SkullsNRoses
    8 years ago

    50 shades of not okay.

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    • RoseIsabella
      8 years ago

      Sounds better than Fifty Shades of Grey to me!

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  • PinkHairedFreak
    8 years ago

    It is 100% normal to not be into pain and all that.

    I do like minor power play a bit with stuff like one person completely unclothed and the other fully clothed and stuff like that, but if something becomes painful, it is an instant turn off, and I pretty much shut down. And I don't want to hurt anyone else either. Being sad and panicked because I hurt somebody kind of kills the moment.

    I don't know why so many people are into that stuff.

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