Is it normal to not be good at butt sex

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I'm terrible at butt sex. Anal sex is just impossible. It hurts so much I make him take it out in seconds. I've tried using a butt plug to stretch it out back there but at a certain point about an inch in, the pain is unbearable and makes me tear up. I really want to do anal sex but it's just so painful. How does anyone do it?? It seems impossible. I've tried using tons of lube but it doesn't help. And then everyone telling me I need to relax.. nothing works!! Is this normal??

Kind of. Some people can and if you keep trying, you may get used to it 2
Not at all. It's weird that this is so difficult for you! 0
Not really. Most people can handle butt sex. Maybe you're really not relaxing enough 5
Totally. Most people can't handle it. 3
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  • CDmale4fem
    6 years ago

    Maybe you need a guy with a itty bitty teeny weeny. I would say also if you are old enough, try having a few drinks and that can help you relax. (Alcoholic drinks). I would day also it can be the position you are trying. If you have the mindset that its gonna hurt and you are wanting to try but waiting for the pain, then you are working against yourself. Try nice hot shower first to help you relax, or maybe a dildo from adult store then you would be able to control it yourself. (How fast or stop or go, etc.)

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  • RoseIsabella
    6 years ago

    Tell him no more anal sex, and that you'll be pegging his ass from now on, and see what he says.

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    • Anongirl26
      6 years ago

      I like your attitude rose. But he doesn't push for it. I'm the one that wants to try it but I'm just no good at it

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      • RoseIsabella
        6 years ago

        You might habe to just accept that it's not for you.

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  • Nickvey
    6 years ago

    just find another guy, how can every guy want your asshole? Its usually the woman wanting asshole sex in my experience. they got "used to it" as children and then needed it to come latter on. ill do an asshole if shes ragging. or if shes begging for it. because if i dont she will get it from the fist hard cock she can find. i guess you have no friends to ask this question too do you? you know damn well its not impossible .

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