Is it normal to not be attracted to guys with the same race as mine?

I'm mexican.. and for some reason, I just don't like guys with the same race as mine or even close to it. I like both white and black males..but sometimes I feel he might not like where I'm coming from. Now a days I see comments like, "dirty mexican" and just makes me feel even worse.
I think that's probably why I don't like guys to have the same race as I am, 'cause I don't like mine.
I don't know.. but it's always been that way.

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Comments ( 11 )
  • Azo9339

    You need to give everyone a chance, just because someone is Mexican you automatically would not date them because of their race? This means you hate yourself, you probably have low self esteem because of this.

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  • ghettotoothfairy

    Abso-fucking-lutely. Once you go black, get a wheel chair

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  • I don't think it is healthy to dislike your own ethno-cultural heritage so much that you couldn't even consider dating within it, and feel other races might think of you as dirt.

    Don't know how you got to such a negative head space, but you need to turn that around.

    Its fine to be attracted by other cultures, but not because you have no respect or pride in your own.

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  • Mersaphe

    There's nothing wrong with having a dating preference but what you're saying is that you hate your own race because of comments that other people made about you. It's totally cool if you want to date white guys or black guys, but don't do it only because you hate your Mexican heritage. You're basically saying that you not only hate Mexican guys but you hate the fact that you're Mexican too. So you would rather be a white girl. First and foremost you have to learn to accept who you are and love yourself before you can expect other people to like you. Guys can sense insecurity in a girl even though they will probably sleep with them anyway because most guys are super horny.

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  • 007alfred

    Like mexican people say: You're a MALINCHISTA!
    Sorry, but you really you the term.

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  • tayler_nordenger

    if it is normal for gay relationships then i dont see why this isnt normal. btw im not a homophobe

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  • TheSquirter

    What i can say is, in able to like someone, is not really base on his race or whatever.Personality and whats person inside is what matters. And also we cannot please everyone to like us, we have like and dislikes and of course its normal because we are human

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  • nothing2

    yeah the first dude is right. you might be part guatamalen.

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  • andydandy1990

    honestly its totaly normal, im italian...and i live in the middle east, ther is a big population of italians here but i dnt like any of them....i actully have an arab boy friend....
    so i knw xctly what you mean, dont worry so much about it its really not a big problem....every one is expirementing at this stage in out lifes!!

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  • LoveYouBabe

    It is odd but most people are attracted to the complete opposite to them. I am also Mexican tan skin, brown hair and eyes. and there are very few men of my race that I like. If they have fair skin and colored eyes then I go bonkers. If they are black and beautiful that is fine too.

    For some reason I don't like blond hair though. that is a no no. red heads are cute. only. loll!

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  • HitlerSausageSlave

    Mexican chicks are hot, but you have to choose between black guys or white guys. If you go black, don't expect any white dudes to want to pick you up.

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