Is it normal to not be attracted to flirtacious men

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I have had bad luck with dating and I realized its because I despise males who like sex and say things like they love women. I know that them saying something like they think women are sexy or something may inducate that they are respectful towards women for some but to me such people are sleezy and womanizers, because they usually end up flurting with other girls while in a "relationship". Thats disrespectful. I dont understand the appeal of casual sex/hookups and I dont like how I am harrassed for not engaging. I prefer to date someone who does not even care about the opposite gender as much and only pays attention to their SO because of mutual interest and a set of standards, not have "backups" and fwb. So I dont really understand why women tend to be attracted to males that "get all the girls" because its shallow and useless competition?? Am i the only one?

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  • Parky_Parker
    8 years ago

    Nothing wrong with living the single lifestyle--as long as you're actually single.

    Personally, I find it pretty repulsive when a guy is in a relationship and tries to flirt with me. I want no part in that. It's immature and unattractive.

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  • shuggy-chan
    8 years ago

    Well i hate bitches and never flurted with them in my life

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    • snarkygirl
      8 years ago

      Jesus says " you guys...I said I hated FIGS!"...

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      • shuggy-chan
        8 years ago

        Fuck you snarky, Newton was a good man. He deserve better than how you treat him

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        • snarkygirl
          8 years ago

          Pshht you like figs! Weirdo! Why can't you be normal and like the apple??!!

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    • Parky_Parker
      8 years ago

      What bitches?

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      • shuggy-chan
        8 years ago

        oh typo i meant Birches, those are always wanting me to flurt wiff deem. dumb trees

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        • Parky_Parker
          8 years ago

          you're a down low tree hugger, no worries

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  • Jo_
    8 years ago

    Completely normal. It's too bad some men are like that, but if you keep looking you'll find someone who'll like you for you. Not just because you're a woman.

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  • shuttuppnerddplz
    8 years ago

    Feel you but there's a few men who knows this :(

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  • snarkygirl
    8 years ago

    If they ate cute . yah I ain't perfect, I admit.

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  • (s)aint
    8 years ago

    I agree with you on the part that flirtacious people are gross. Whilst I may enjoy their attention if I´m single and they are good looking I´d never date such a person.

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  • Terence_the_viking
    8 years ago

    God fot you

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  • gollum
    8 years ago

    I guess but for example on dating profiles some men will say something generic in their description like promising to cuddle/treat you(the next person that messages them) right(and right away). Well you must be really desperate of you are going to give special treatment to just any girl that comes your way; no judgement as if your not even taking the time to get to know them and determine if they are worth whatever or not.

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  • thedog
    8 years ago

    They're attracted to men who "get all the girls" because it makes them appear more desirable and sought-after.

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