Is it normal to not be able to orgasm(male)

Really? Yes you can feel like you are going to piss and then stop. I remember prob my first time sitting in the toilet playing with my dick, leaning forward because i thought I was going to pee and I exploded, it felt awesome, just relax and go with it. Maybe get a toy or a partner that is understanding and can help?

I remember a few times before I first cum I got basically to the point of blowing but it felt SO good & extremely sensitive it hurt so I stopped.
Is that what's happening to you?
Or as above you feel like you're guna piss?

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No not normal. I remember, i didnt know what was supposed to happen and the first two times i had terrible headaches for hours just after cuming ( not to scare you or anything lol)

It could be a mental block, like you're not letting yourself go or trying too hard and it won't happen.

But don't ur Testicles hurt?

I think you're forcing it or thinking too much. Let go and let your body do everything, let your mind wander. Your body wants you to come, it won't hold back. Aha

Hmmm details should be included. Like have you tried masturbation? Have you had sex? Maybe your not allowing your body to and holding it back, it's a mental thing. You might have to completely clear your mind and just think about how good it feels. I knew someone who told me that he use to think he had to pee so he would stop and run to the bathroom. LOL there are many unknown reasons that it could be.