Is it normal to not be able to get over my ex gf

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I have been married for 3 years and a year ago I started talking to my ex, we didn't fight but just lost contact, we started talking again but now she is the only thing on my mind. I'm having trouble feeling anything when I'm not with her and not taking to her, I don't want to hurt my wife but I can't help having these feeling. My ex still loves me and says it all the time and I can't help but say it back. She said I should just try to forget her and my feelings for her but I can't. I Don't Know What To Do! Oh and by the way I'm 23 if that makes a difference.

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  • DrinaVonCheez
    12 years ago

    1. You shouldn't have gotten married when you were only 20.
    2. You shouldn't have even married someone, let alone DATE someone if you're still not over your ex.
    3. Your ex says she loves you, then says to try to forget your feelings for her..?

    All of this is just one big fail.

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    12 years ago

    your problem is that you tried to hook back up with the ex after CHOOSING to get married.

    you claim you don't want to hurt your wife but... you've decided to put her second and put another woman first.

    Sounds like you're trying to justify cheating on her. Telling yourself it's not really wrong when you know it is.

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  • wigsplitz
    12 years ago

    You owe it to her to tell her. She should be the one to decide whether or not she wants to stay with you, not the other way around.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    You're currently cheating on your wife. A man would tell his wife, and apologize to her.

    I think if they are both okay with you being in a relationship with both of them, then do that.

    If you can't have both of them... then be with your ex girlfriend.

    If you can't have either, well, it's your own goddamn fault.

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  • emotionalwreck4ever
    12 years ago

    Dont Hurt Your Wife, You Shouldve Thought About This Before You Got Married, Now You Gotta Think Of Your Vows, MArriage Is Something Big Dont Mess It Up For An Ex, Theyre An EXaple They Didnt Make It To Your Future.

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  • misslogical
    12 years ago

    Don't mess up your marriage go forward not backwards and if you knew you wasn't over your ex you should have never led your wife on you guys lost contact for a reason things happen as planned by the higher man not to get all religious but seriously things happen for a reason and reuniting with your ex could just be a test to see whether or not you are stronger with temptations

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  • Dozis
    12 years ago

    Get OVER IT!
    Invite her home for a nice dinner with the rest of the family and Make her........ your second wife. Of course illegally if you are a catholic. Or presbiterian. Or evangelist. Or ortodox. Or the governament sitting on your state is anti bigamy. Which, most are. Don't ask me why, I don't know that. I can only guess.
    I think every male and female should be allowed to marry as many people as he/she wants. As long as he/she can pay for... something. I know plenty of women who would like or would be better off with two or even three husbands and many men who would benefit a lot from a polygamist marriage. Oh no! the evil forces of organized cristianity are coming to get me! I am fucked!

    Try forgetting them both and mail order yourself a japanese wife. Or... you can start going to gay clubs!
    I hate this kind of women.

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