Is it normal to not be able to get over a boy

Im a girl. 2 years I fell in love with a guy who didn't like me back. Is it normal to still not have him out of my mind??? And am I still in love?

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83% Normal
Based on 53 votes (44 yes)
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  • bigguy2010

    It's very normal and very painful. I went through something very similar (with a girl) when I was young. Time will heal all wounds. A new love interest might help you. Are there any other guys YouTube give a chance? Somewhere nearby, there is a boy who would like to get to know you better. Go find him.

    Best wishes.

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  • bigguy2010

    How did my iPod mistake "you could" for "YouTube?"

    Sorry.

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  • Teatree

    I'm in a similar situation. I had a thing with this guy for 6 months and I lost my virginity to him and he just stopped talking to me afterwards. I tried talking to him but he just ignores me so I'm just giving up but I cant get over him and I just want him back more than anything but he was never really mine to begin with.

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  • The L word shouldn't be used to early in a relationship or if one of u have nothing for that person if you say it's love it's probably lust instead

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  • southernbarbie16

    Ahh I'm in the same situation!! I know how it feels, and it really hurts, especially when you can't see yourself with anybody but him.

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  • St.Clair59

    I had a crush on Larry* when I was in the eighth grade, and my crush on him lasted up until my sophomore year in college, about 6 years. It became so bad that I was obsessing over him, thinking about what would happen when we got married, the whole nine yards. Eventually there was a rumor spread about me stalking him. I'm over him now. It is hard to get over someone you really like. Just keep in mind that if you and that person are meant to be it will happen, and if not then there may be somebody even better for you out there somewhere. It is okay to have a crush on somebody, but just don't get obsessive.

    *Name has been changed.

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  • Thanks for your help everyone. Trust me, it's over between us. We arent even friends.

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  • c1rca22

    well it depends, does this guy know you like him? and does he possibly like you as well?

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  • alv1592

    i'm sorta in the same situation. there's a guy i've liked on and off for 2 years. when he was going out with other girls i tried to forget about him, but when he was single again i started to like him again. are you friends with the guy you like? if so, it could turn into something more. but if it doesn't, don't worry. there are other guys.

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