Is it normal to not be able to figure out my feelings?

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I have been dating this guy for about four months. We were co-workers, then friends, then dating. He is no longer a co-worker of mine. The 'problem' is he is still married. They have been separated for about two years, but the paper work is still unfinished. He has always been up front and very honest about his 'ex-wife'. They don't have any children or any combined finances. He also says he wants me to be his girlfriend when the divorce is completed. I can't figure out if I want to be his girlfriend. I definetly enjoy his company and he treats me with a lot of respect, and the sex is great. Why wouldn't I want to be?... He says he will NEVER get married again. As a women in her late twenties, marrage is something that I believe that I want in my future. Not right now, but at least a discussion. Should I stay in a relationship that gives me almost everything?

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Based on 34 votes (16 yes)
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  • sportsmom
    14 years ago

    Run!

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Yup, RUN

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  • cappi49
    14 years ago

    Bu bye... Let him go so your real guy can find you. Don't settle for less than, you deserve what you want, you just need to allow it in your life.

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  • Scarlett01
    14 years ago

    Run like hell.

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  • ruralfrights
    14 years ago

    Everything?! By what you just said, he wants you as a girlfriend, and you want to be a wife. He's upfront to you because he has nothing to lose. He probably sees you ad replaceable. The question is: is he upfront with his wife? Probably not and I doubt he's telling the truth about the paperwork. How long hasthat bern going on? Your heart is about to be smashed.

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  • hengiska
    14 years ago

    Let him go..

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  • Lizbit
    14 years ago

    I second sportsmon!!!

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