Is it normal to not be able to deal with anything more than a kiss?

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I feel like such an idiot because in 2 weeks i'm 17 and i havent even done tongues. I mean my boobs have been felt up but that's it and when i'm in a relationship we dont even hug much and have amazing online convos but not so great face to face? I've been in the position where i could of had sex with this guy i really liked but i bailed as i just couldnt do it and at a different time not even something minor like fingering? I dont know whats wrong with me i just cant seem to deal with any human sexual interaction? but I'm okay watching porn but then i cant watch on screen kisses? I'm worried i have a problem or something. So if you could comment anything that could help i would me so grateful.

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  • NotFloydzie
    11 years ago

    You don't have a problem, love. Give yourself enough time to get sexually comfortable, and then you can try whatever you want without being afraid or whatever it is that's stopping you. Not everybody is the same. Don't worry, and take your time.

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  • 1000yrVampireKing
    11 years ago

    It has been scientifically proven that people having sex before 18 often have health issues. You are only 17 so stop worrying. Just since everyone has been doing it does not mean you have to. Wait till you meet someone you really like and if you never do don't. You should not feel obligated. You are way too young to be doing it anyways. A lot of people do wait till marriage and they are just fine. Most of them better off for it. So yes you are the normal one.

    http://familydoctor.org/familydoctor/en/teens/puberty-sexuality/sex-making-the-right-decision.html

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  • ygrowup
    11 years ago

    You are really worried it seems, but you shouldn't, it will all feel right and just when your time is ready! Don't rush things, that you might regret, being sexual with another starts at different times and ages for everyone. Your normal, so just go out and enjoy being who you are!

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  • Terence_the_viking
    11 years ago

    Kissing is great. I love to kiss.

    That's all i have to say about that

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  • GuessWho
    11 years ago

    You have a condition known as... DECENCY.

    Contrary to what modern media leads people to believe, you don't have to become a whore in order to enjoy life. There are plenty of good things that life has to offer without the need for fucking around.

    Don't let anyone put pressure on you, your time will come when you're ready and have found the right person.

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  • bristexai
    11 years ago

    I though 16 year olds weren't allowed here.

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