Is it normal to not accept its over?

Honestly, my bf of 4 years, very serious relationship, just started completely ignoring me to avoid conflict that might occur from some things he caused. No texts, no returned calls, nothing. Everyone says to let it go but seriously its like I'm just 'going along' with his actions. Like "oh well, hes ignoring me its time for it to be over." how could he do this shit to me? Is it normal to not accept it?

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  • Twarrior

    Sounds like he found something else on the side.

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  • babe7575

    Interesting how some guys do this.

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  • nevergaveusachance

    I am trying to move on from a guy who ditched me months ago because he never even said good bye and he always acted so incredible towards me...I can't let it go and I honestly won't ever. Trust me, if this site exists in another 5+ years, I'll probably make some question like, "IIN I'm still in love with a guy from 5+ years ago?" It's so sad but true. Sometimes we can't just accept it..Sometimes it doesn't feel right..I don't know your situation but I'd just wait it out. If it's meant to be, it'll be. That's the way I see it. But this guy, I'll always wait for.

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  • Riker300

    What is problem? Since when do determined women give up so easily? Grab that trench coat and put it on with nothing on underneath then drive to his house when you know damn well he is home. You know the rest of what to do...

    If he rejects you then you know it is completely over and you can let it be. If he invites you in then keep your cool and leave him hanging without completing the deed.

    Women as a reformed complete a-HOLE man I tell you this: Leave him wanting more than you give him and you will earn his attention. Give him the sex on the first date and he will never consider you "special enough" to maintain his interests.

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  • closet0taku

    the reason that you cant get over him is because you didnt get any closure you should burn his house down

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  • joybird

    So he hasn't the guts to speak to you! Don't waste any more time hanging around waiting for him. Put yourself first, get out there and have some fun.

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