Is it normal to no longer find real women attractive?

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Hey, I'm a single 20 dude.

I've been really into hentai doujin/manga recently. I think it's mainly due to the art, story, settings, fetishes shown in hentai. And for the last 6 months or so I've been fapping exclusively to hentai.

A few days back I tried maturbating to real porn but I had trouble keeping my dick hard. It's always something I see that completely turns me off whether it'd be the gaping assholes or the slightly chubby bodies. I can't help feel absolutely disgusted when I see the women's labia hanging out looking like roast beef. I think the most serious part is I don't find the faces of real women attractive anymore.

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  • Boojum
    6 years ago

    If you want your only sexual relationship to be with idealized female cartoon figures, that's fine. There's no law that says everyone must have a sexual and emotional relationship with another human being.

    If you've trained yourself to only find the distorted figures of Hentai characters sexually appealing, I can understand why you find actual women unappealing.

    Something similar happens to guys who train themselves to orgasm when looking at the surgically enhanced and reduced bodies and faces of porn actresses.

    I also have to say that you seem to have a very shallow view of what sex is about. If you just want to have an orgasm, the most efficient way to do that is masturbation. Emotionally mature people enjoy the giving aspect of sex far more than the receiving. Knowing that another person trusts you enough to bare their body to you and that you're giving them pleasure and helping them enjoy their body (with all its imperfections) is far more satisfying on a far deeper level than any orgasm can ever be.

    Finally, as long as you equate labia with "roast beef", I hope you stay far away from sexual encounters with any real woman. Far too many women have far too many huge hang-ups about their bodies. The last thing they need is someone looking at them in disgust because they don't match the twisted ideals of Japanese cartoon illustrators.

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  • Morrow
    6 years ago

    Finding porn disgusting is normal, because it is. But not being able to appreciate the face of a beautiful woman is disturbing. You've been watching porn for too long and you've seriously done some mental damage. I think the best thing for you will be to try to quit. Look I get it, I see the attraction. I don't think you're crazy, manga girls are hot. They're this idealized version of what you're looking for in a woman, so imperfections in the appearance and personality of real women become more apparent. But you're never going to find fulfillment through this, only a palliative of satisfaction. I think you need to quit, and I don't mean go back to normal porn, I mean leave it all behind. Eventually your feelings for these characters will fade and you will realize that none of this stuff really matters. Then what are you going to do?
    I'll follow this in case you want to discuss this some more. I wish you best of luck.

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