Is it normal to never want to love again?

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Everytime I love someone, open my heart and trust them, not only one exception they betray me and vanish. I've been hurt so many many times before so I decided never to love again. Life might be boring without love but it's gonna be less painful. I never, ever wanna love and get hurt like this again cause it all add up and I come to the point of being suicidal everyday. How not to love? How to protect yourself from caring and loving? That is my queston. Thank you. Please no love is a wonderful thing, no pain no gain. It's like trying to convincing me to f**k me in the ass.

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  • JohnCena321
    7 years ago

    I am exactly like you... I already had two suicide attempts, from one girl. So i guess dont fall in love with the wrong person. I know its easy to be said.

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  • kia106
    14 years ago

    IT IT TIME TO OVE U WILL LOVE AGAIN EVEN IF IT TAKES A LIFE TIME TO GET OVER HIM HEAVEN LOLY KNOWS

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  • PiAnt
    14 years ago

    At our most basic level, were are social animals. We were designed to be gregarious. To form relationships and live with others are parts of our heritage.

    So, it's not normal, in that respect, to be alone. It goes completely against our programming, which is why you're asking this question.

    Having said that though, conversely, we are whole within ourselves. There is no need to be with someone else in order to function fully or to complete ourselves.

    Many of us find that relationships nowadays cause more pain than any any benefit we derive from them, as you've discovered.

    We have to weigh up the advantages and disadvantages of both positions. The risks that a relationship brings, or the unnatural state of being alone.

    Many people arrive at the conclusion, even if just for the timebeing, that the benefits of being alone far outweigh any benefits of being in a relationship.

    But, there's still that basic drive reminding us that although we're doing just fine on our own (probably great in fact), wouldn't it be wonderful to be in love, and loved, again.

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    • WillieWonka
      14 years ago

      I love every one it seems, and worry about people I do not even know when I see them in difficult situations, but at the same time I do this, I personally feel that I get no love from anyone, I feel alone a majority of the time and as if I only get attention from family, friends or others in general when they want something. So I sometimes wish I could not love at all, because selfishly I would feel better I think, but probably not.

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