Is it normal to never want to have sex again?

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I had sex with my girlfriend friday, and saturday and today I have felt hideously depressed and disgusted and I wanted to kill myself badly..I mean more so than usual so I just got high the whole time...

Yet, I finally had sex and I feel like I never want to do it again...

I should also mention that I was molested when I was younger by another boy... possibly others I can't remember, the weed helped me forget

So is it normal to feel like this after sex?

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Based on 22 votes (4 yes)
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  • darnitjoan
    13 years ago

    Id say your feeling depressed is not because of the sex but because you're depressed :) and perhaps you expected to feel more after having sex. Many people don't feel connected at all their first couple of sexual partners.

    Piece of advice...in the short term the weed is going to make you feel better but in the long term it'll fuck up your life and make you want to kill yourself even more. TRUST ME!

    quit weed and have more sex

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  • dappled
    13 years ago

    Whatever problems you may have, I don't think sex with your girlfriend are the root causes.

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  • Tempest-au
    7 years ago

    You appear to be severely depressed, in fact dangerously so. Get help before you self harm.

    Also, I doubt your feelings have anything directly to do with having sex with your girlfriend. Possibly (and I'm not a psychologist so this could be wrong) the act of heterosexual sex is taking your memories back to the abusive homosexual sex you experienced earlier - and that is firer exacerbating your depression.

    Get help, I really think you need to speak to a therapist of some form.

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  • LiamHale
    13 years ago

    It's not normal! Go check yourself into rehab.

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