Is it normal to never think a girl is interested in me?
So it's my junior year in college and I've been looking for a real girlfriend. Not just a hookup. There was this one girl. We talked almost every day over winter break, and we even kissed once. But as it turns out she was really just leading me on. She played me like a flute.
And after that whenever I find a girl who I think may be showing signs of attraction I second guess myself into thinking she isn't really interested. That she probably likes someone else and I'm just some annoying bloke trying to get in her pants.
I have a crush on this one girl right now. we're in the same club at school, but our interactions have been rather brief. Whenever we talk she seems interested and she smiles a lot, but I've seen her that way with other people and it discourages me.
Over spring break I mustered up the strength to start a little conversation with her on Facebook. She said "hey!" and we had a nice little chat. She asked me questions about myself.
But even with all of this, I can't bring myself to believe that this chick actually likes me. Is this common for a lot of you guys?