Is it normal to never orgasm?

I've hooked up with a couple of guys and everything seems to be going awesome; it feels good, we're both enjoying it, ect. But I can never seem to have an orgasm with them. I'll just get to the point of faking it because I feel like it's taking to long. However, I have NO problem having an orgasm when I masturbate. It's only when someone else is trying to get me there. So is this normal for a lot of women and how can I fix it?

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Based on 22 votes (17 yes)
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  • Imnotembarrased

    Have him lick your clit.

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  • Why fake it? Just stop when you are done.

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  • thinkingaboutit

    Um 1) not everyone orgasms vaginally 2) you may be emotionally blocked if your not orgasming with clitoral stimulation 3) your probably a teenager and havent matured enough yet 4) wait til your thirty, youll get there

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  • picflirt

    Part of it is also learning to let go with who you are with, if you're tense, nervous, etc, that can stop you from those orgasms as well. Or play around, find the things that send you over the edge when its just you, and talk to your lover, and see if they can put them into practice

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  • lc1988

    get a dildo and experiment. find your g spot so you can guide a penis there. i'm a hypocrite. I'm the same way...but i'm going to take my own advice one of these days.

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