Is it normal to never love?

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I have never cried when a family or friend has died, i dont care if they die, i dont care about my friends, i dont know why i call them friends, do they call me a friend? i dont love anyone, i dont love my mom or my brother, i like pretty girls, i like cute girls/ little girls, i like all animals in the worlds even the ugly ones.

i dont think i know how to love.

i dont get shaky, happy, light hearted, giddy around girls i like. i dont get it; i like atleast 100 people but if they died i wouldnt care.

i would love to have a girl to hold, ( etc. supper romantic stuff, bla-bla-bla ) i would love to have a wife, i would love to have kids, i would love to have a dog. but WHY DONT I LOVE ANYONE OR ANYTHING AT ALL.

is that humanly possible...

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  • ProseAthlete
    11 years ago

    If you're genuine in not caring whether friends and family die and aren't just walling off your natural feelings out of fear of becoming hurt later, you...well, you kind of sound like a sociopath. Not the "Dexter" type who murders people, necessarily, but the kind that just doesn't feel too deeply for anyone but himself or herself.

    You say you would "love to have a girl to hold," but you don't seem concerned about how those feelings are reciprocated. You don't have any deep connections to friends and family. You don't grieve losses. Incapacity for love and seeing other people around you as objects or tools for your own gratification is pretty much the definition of a sociopathic personality.

    It's definitely not the norm, no.

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    • just_a_freak
      11 years ago

      But i dont really care for myself...
      and i dont see others as objects...
      i take in concederation of other peoples feelings in everything, ( i even create a space between my school desk and other school desks behind me so i dont lean back over their desks)
      Am I a dexter sociopath.... because i would love to "get rid of" many people, but i dont because wasting my life away in jail seems just as bad as life right now so why change surrounding..............................

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  • ganesha
    11 years ago

    You EXACLY discribed my life.........

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  • spark007
    11 years ago

    It's possible...but is it true you didn't even feel a HINT of sadness when a family/friend passed away!?
    *sniff sniff* :'(

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    • just_a_freak
      11 years ago

      ofcourse i know its sad but i dont care...

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      • spark007
        11 years ago

        Please don't say you don't care just because you don't know him, that hurt me so please don't. And even if you can't love.

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  • michaels4p5
    11 years ago

    its possible.

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