Is it normal to never have had an orgasm?

So I'm a girl. I have had sex multiple times with different guys (no I am not a slut) but have never orgasmed, sure sex feels good but I have never reached the climax or anything. I have heard an orgasm is the best feeling in the world, I feel wierd because I have never had one with any guy I've been with. Is that normal?

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45% Normal
Based on 11 votes (5 yes)
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  • Naamah

    Your sentence "I have heard an orgasm is the best feeling in the world" really sounds like you have never experienced an orgasm in your life - neither with a guy nor during masturbation. If you have never climaxed during masturbation - is it because you have never tried that (masturbation to orgasm) or because you can´t reach orgasm no matter what masturbation technique you use? It´s very important if you can make yourself orgasm or not - knowing your body and its sexual response well is definitely a good starting point. You know, it wouldn´t be quite fair to expect a guy to do all the "work" for you and show you the miracle :) In case you have no problem to reach orgasm during masturbation, you may think about how you could apply this knowledge to sexual experiences with a partner and maybe find a way how to tell your partner what feels good. The probabily that you will orgasm with a partner is much higher if he knows your body and what you like as well and your orgasm isn´t just a matter of chance. Good luck with that.

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  • drbishop

    Not even while masturbating?

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  • analsexonly

    Pretty common, actually. A lot of women have difficulty orgasming from sex.

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  • squeallikeasacofpigs

    Sex. - You're not doing it right

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    • Care to explain?

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      • squeallikeasacofpigs

        Lol, actually - Sex. - They're not doing in right! Hahaha

        It should be every man's goal to make a woman orgasm when he has sex with them. If he doesn't, she's not going to stick around for long. That said, it's also up to you to be in charge of your own sexual satisfaction.

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  • kr24

    You just have to roll the ball while you're at it.

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  • What about... If you hold your breath (for about a minute at a time) and bear down like you're trying to go pee with force--but clench your hoo-ha tight so you don't actually pee?

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    • I am trying to have an orgasm not give birth haha

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      • charli.m

        Yeah, but toning your pelvic floor is not just about giving birth, it's also good for pleasure. You gotta work them if you want them to work for you, kind of thing.

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        • Oh I see cool I will try it.

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  • charli.m

    It happens. I've never, either.

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