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Well, long story short, my long list if rejection is basically as follows: I'm like a broken toy on a shelf that no one wants. Even girls who like me end up saying no due to giving guys a break, getting involved with Someone else 5 minutes before I ask, etc. So I ask, is it normal to never have a chance?
This is dangerous thinking, and if you reflect on this with a clear mind you will find that none of it is really true. You need to find a way to deal with these thoughts or they will crush you in the end.
I've struggled with this in the past, but once you recognize that you are having these thoughts it's easier to get past them.
No. You are just giving up. And feeling defeated from the start is not going to help you with girls.
chances are very valuable but do not give up when you dont have any.. just fight and create chance by any means...
i had same problem and i reccomend fanatism.
You can't just sit back like "a broken toy on a shelf that no one wants" and wait for a chance. Obviously, there's a reason nobody wants you. It's time for a little self-evaluation. Figure out what it is about you that turns off people and make some changes. Luck doesn't come to those who wait, it comes to those who try.
I'm feeling the same way too. I'm 18, and I've never really been in a relationship. It just seemed to never work out with any of the girls I liked. The last one was the worst. I was literally in love with her, and I thought she liked me too, but she turned me down and we didn't talk for nearly two months. Now we're just starting to be friends again and I don't know what to do because I still love her and want her more than anything in the world. It sucks.
Ok. Thanks. I wasn't looking for advice, just wondering if everyone else was like this. But the advice is welcome
No one leaves a broken toy on the shelf forever. Some one eventually grabs it, fixes it, and calls it there own. In the meantime dust yourself because it will come when LEAST expected.