Is it normal to never had a girl friend at 21?

I was home schooled and I don't have any friends. I am so alone, I am starting to fell like, I am missing out on my youth. It's not that I haven't had a chance, I just feel like it's not at the top of my list.

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Based on 51 votes (34 yes)
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  • cocainecutie

    i had a bf by age 7

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  • Don't worry, neither have half the losers on IIN.

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  • Avant-Garde

    I know how you feel... Try social networking, getting a job, joining a club. Do you go to college? These are all good places to meet someone.

    Good Luck:)

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  • Anime7

    This may sound like an odd option but have you tried eHarmony or any other dating website? Also, try taking courses at your local community college. Your house isn't the best place to meet people. If you want to make friends and potentially get a girlfriend you have to leave home school and get out more.

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    • bumblecreek

      this.
      when i read the post, i got the feeling that maybe someone, like a parent or guardian is shutting him in and preventing from being socially active. maybe they are over protective, worried, or possibly lacking confidence in their child.

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      • Anime7

        I sort got that vibe as well. I was thinking that the OP's parents sort of kept him locked away. But I've actually read a lot of this type of post where the OP is usually stuck at home and doesn't go out often, thus they feel alone.

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        • ontherun987

          OP here... I can come and go as I please, I have car and I leave the house almost everyday. I just can't seem to find friends.

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          • Anime7

            That's why I suggested taking some classes at your local community college. School is a great place to meet people.

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  • fullhouse

    This aint right..are you gay?

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