Is it normal to never feel turned on by anyone?

Sometimes my friends talk about people that they think are "hot" and I never agree. I don't feel sexually attracted to anyone and don't remember ever feeling that way. I have had "crushes" on guys before but those were only ever based on personality. And in those cases I didnt want to go out with the person or anything. I just felt like I wanted to be really good friends. I couldnt care less about peoples' looks. IIN?

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  • mellorine

    I have felt exactly the same as you. Everyone else was talking about who's hot, being all excited about dating, and all I had were vague...I liked to call them 'academic crushes', haha, since it was sort of like personality but I didn't actually want to *date* them.

    Then I dated in college, and while I like people, I wasn't all that interested in sex, either. Fun, but I never understood about people talking about being horny or whatever.

    And learned there's a word for people like me - asexual! :D I'm not a late bloomer, or "haven't found the right person" or "doing it wrong", I'm just not interested, and that's okay. You can check out AVEN (Asexual Visibility and Education Network) and see the info there makes sense to you. But remember, how you identify yourself is supposed to work *for* you, not stuff you into a little labeled box. Best of luck! <3

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  • You're a useless cunt if you don't put out.

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    • Austalien

      Well said sir

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  • You'll find someone.

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  • Lonely2

    First you have to decide if you have a normal sex drive...do you ever get wet or your nipples get hard...not evry day but a couple times throughout the month and espcially right before your period..do you have dreams about sex and masturbate..if you never do those things then maybe your sex drive is low..if you sex drive is normal then there is other psychological reasons...

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  • SoCal

    you've got serious psycho issues and how you're going thru life like that?

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  • Chrome166

    Normal, no. But it doesn't make you a bad person.

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  • Hmmaybe

    You could be asexual. I.e. have no sexual attraction or urges.

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  • I dont feel any sexual attraction to anyone but I agree when someone is beautiful in appearance I couldnt care less about the other stuff.

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  • Who_Fan4Life

    You sound like a decent person. Like Floydz said, you'll find someone one day.

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  • rayst

    Have you considered girls?

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