Is it normal to need to have sex 3-4 times a week

I am a girl and I need to have sex 3-4 times a week....I dnt have a bf so it's not always wit the same guy....does this make me a slut cuz if it was a guy he would be a hero...for girls it makes us sluts...so tell me is this normal???

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62% Normal
Based on 484 votes (301 yes)
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  • Who care? Male or female it means you are into random & multiple sex partners and that is a health risk. I hope you are talking with a nurse or Dr. about this.

    BTW - People who admire men for this behaviour are just as dorky and shallow as the guy they admire.

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  • Well in America it's normal overall but ur still going to feel empty even with sex5 times a week! You are replacing sex with love so if you really want to be loved find a bf and promise yourself you WILL NOT have sex with him until you have gone out for a certain number of days/weeks trust me it will be worth it! and if you and that guy don't work put keep trying! There IS a guy out there for you

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  • Men like sluts

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  • jetleets

    Yes. Unfortunately you ARE a SLUT. Fortunately this is 2010 so being a slut is normal. ;)

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  • SillyKitty55

    your not a slut. i am a girl too and i need to hasve sex way more than you do. i want it every day from my man. but he couldn't keep up so we broke up. and he wanted to be with other girls. mof bastard.
    anyways i have a way better man now that can actually perform and keep up with me. if you want that nast feeling to go away that you are a slut for wanting it that many times a week, than find a man like i did -that treats you right, and can perform and keep up with you-just like i found!
    REMEMBER GUYS WANT IT JUST AS MUCH AS WE DO AND VISE VERSA-THEY JUST MAY AND MANY CASES DON'T ADMIT THAT THEY ARE MAN WHORES YOU COCKSUCKER HYPOCRYTE'S!!!!!!!!!!!!!!(THAT GOES FOR ALL YOU SELFISH RUDE MEN OUT THERE!!)

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  • jetta2

    If a guy sleeps around it's ok but if a girl does it she's a slut. Why? Who is the judge? Do whatever u want. Be happy and safe.

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  • iGornet

    yup, you're a slut.

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  • natnohan

    You are not a slut. Everyone who thinks so may go to hell. If you are having an orgasm each time then enjoy. Wear a condom. It is 2010.

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  • joelsmo

    Sorry girls, whether you like it or not, you are a slut. Any guy on here who says differently is lying, and the only reason they would date you is because you are an easy lay. make sure you keep a regular doctors appointment because just because you wear a condemn doesn't mean its full proof

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  • inlove89

    Ya slut. If you were a guy I would still call u a slut. I don't discriminate.

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  • westerfan12

    Sex should be with a guy who u really love and care about. If ur having sex 3 or 4 times a week with a DIFFERENT guy then ur a slut and u need some help

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  • JuliusE

    Sorry ladies but girls and guys aren't the same. When I was single I loved fuck buddies but would never ever consider having a serious relationship with one. If your fine with being a slut than just accept the role but if you want a serious bf who respects you, you gotta stop being a slut. Men have a much higher tolerance for sex before they are considered nasty and that's just always how it's gonna be so get over it

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  • Bumholelover

    At the end of the day, even if any girl slept with like 10 guys a week, that's her decision, I hate the world slut, what ever people want to do in there personal life is up to them, no one has the rite to judge anyone, fuck it if she enjoying herself then let her be.

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  • chels_87

    No it doesn't make you a slut, you obviously just have a high sex drive.
    I wouldn't reccomend sleeping with stranger, but if you do make sure you stay safe and ALWAYS carry protection as well as making sure your on the pill/ injecton/implant.
    At least that way if something happens you know your already covered, but always use a condom in this day and age you can catch anything.....

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  • courios77

    Yes its normal I want sex all the time. I have a very strong sex drive. It actually is creating problems for my wife and I. Well its all I think about sometimes and u r NOT A SLUT. U have a strong sex drive. Try find a man that is gonns a have the same drive. If not its goona have its downfall. Also don't listen to guys that r calling u names. There just jealous they don't have u. Tru lookig on adult friend finders.com. There's every kind of person in this web site. That will meet your standards. Do what u gotta do. Honey. And enjoy. Have plenty of sex and fuck who u want and when u want just be safe and clean. We all have our needs. Ever try being bi curious. That's like opening up a can of worms but in a good way. Been there done that. Its all normal.

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  • iamandam

    no, it is in no way normal. Skank.

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  • BoredGuy

    muahahahah, you are a freakin slut, stop wondering no more. Don't you just love internet?

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  • Abtanazahx

    Don't worry what other people think. There's nothing wrong with liking cock...If you enjoy it then do it.

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  • NotEverEnuf

    It's normal to want it that much but since your not in a relationship make sure you are "playing safe"

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  • Wolf-Legacy

    Yes, you are indeed a slut. Much apologies. It might be normal, but it's not highly intelligent, because it gives you the image of a girl that has no self control over her sexual needs and gives people the thought of you having STD's, though the STD part might not be true, it won't stop people from losing respect for you. Guys are the same as girls, except they don't exactly have a definate name. I like to call them man-sluts. :) 2010 might be the year of sex or whatever, but seriously, sex isn't everything.
    Love over lust.

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  • flashpoint

    If nymphomania is becoming a problem, talk to your doctor about maybe starting a low dose of medication on a trial basis. OCD meds, mood stabilizers, insomnia meds. . . you'll find something that will kill the drive entirely. I've heard SSRIs are great for that. I don't think 3-4 times a week counts as an addiction, but if you're getting into trouble because you can't find a single long-term partner, yeah. Might want to consider professional consultation.

    If it's not a problem, enjoy.

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  • womanwhowenttomars

    It's normal so chill out. I'd suggest to go to a ob/gyn every other month or so to check for diseases.

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  • am5310

    This is 2010 sex was created to be enjoyed so no you're not a slut

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  • Sheep

    slut...

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  • sweetlilwookims

    I'm a guy and I like to have sex every day, sometimes twice. Pretty good sex, 2-3 hours each. So you are not haveing enough sex. Sex keeps you out of trouble. Get married and have lots of sex.

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  • No_War

    You are a slut. But don't worry, this might help you find more partners. Just be sure to get your STD meds every week!

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  • koolmoedee

    You're normal. You have a high sex drive.

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  • Yes, it does make u that. You sound hot.

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  • thisbseth

    If you don't have a good relationship with your dad that might be the reason for your sex behavior.

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  • wibble

    3 times a week is 156 times a year, which is 156 men a year if it's with a different man each time.

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  • mattwho16

    I used to want/have sex 1-5 times a day and then I had to many kid s so now I remain very afraid of sex and it sucks cuz I miss it and I'm a man so I say your normal just try to stay away from nasty guys and also maybe you need something more to fill your time up like trying to make money that's always a time consumer

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  • smittysmerk

    - You have a very intense sex drive which is good ... But that does sound slutty though. Build a better reputation fast!

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  • shadowkin101

    yes i can say that makes you a slut but then people are unfortunalty attracted to that and does that make you either a whore or a jigglo or do you use either ????

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  • Gidget

    Just as long as u feel good about urself still use protection and get tested every couple of partners

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  • sweetg76

    It's normal to want sex everyday, differant partners Not , if u don't want to be a slut get a vibrator then you'll be in a commited relationship =) lol

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  • anddrei

    normal. the others are just testosterone deprived.

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  • 3 to 4 times a week ONLY?? I need it 2 times a day. And I'm a girl and I'm NOT a slut. I have a tall and handsome bf who is very hung and gives it to me really good 4-5 times a week. In fact he is sleeping right now and his dick is hard and all I want to do is suck it and jump on him and ride him.........

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  • nuttabutta

    Take pride in that

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  • karpaal

    go for it get as much cock u want good for you

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  • JadedImage

    I'm horny everyday!! lol.

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  • yvenkaerf

    If you feel compelled to have sex, it could be a disorder.
    You have to be clear on "need" are you just horny? --that's normal
    but if you feel like you can't funciton, or like it's a bit of an addiction...like a need you HAVE TO satisfy
    you should get it checked.

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  • bam361

    that is totally normal, me and my wife have sex 3,4, maybe 5 times a day

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  • uhohoreo

    That's why there are condoms people come on now.....

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  • steph19913

    I love sex ill do it like 4 times a day but I'm in a relationship I don't go off and do different guys you could get a disease ands that's something I hope you don't want to risk

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  • Ra1l

    @Clorplax
    Brilliant analogy! I'm stealing that.

    Seriously though, women have a moist elastic hole... different seaman, sticking to the sides, stretching out, dicks are dirty!

    Men don't have to worry about becoming loose.
    Babies happen.

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    • Crueltobekind1587

      It's not a master key if it only opens shitty locks though. It's a shitty key too.

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  • Ameenoo

    but u should remember that u should have 1 GUY in your f***ers list... u r a girl and u should get used to ur luck of being a girl in the world

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  • Ameenoo

    the normal is...
    guys twice a day
    girls once each two days...

    ssoooo u ROCK!

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    • yumicpcake

      I have sex most every night but with the same guy.For the last 7 yrs. If you don't wanna be a slut then get some toys or a steady boyfriend. And yes your normal. I'm always ready- Play on!!

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  • rawr!

    You should totally go lez girls last longer than guys anywys and me and my gf do it at least 6 times or more a day :) or you can give me a call lol

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  • timmy420

    I have a bf and he is the and I'd love to have sex 4 times a week. His sex drive ain't so hott

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  • Keep it up! You'll have more men crawling on ya!

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  • LeonKiel

    Damn girl!!

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  • uhohoreo

    Ok silkykitty55 you have had the best comment since I posted this on here!!! Thanks!!!

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  • I could go for sex a few times a day as well. I have a want for sex a lot too but that's not always possible.

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  • Equity

    Did you say 3-4 times a day?
    What's the problem?

    Normal on the account of frequency.

    About the other - do you feel slut?

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  • Why doesn't my bf ask me to have sex

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  • tygeronherbed

    me and my bf do it at least 7 times a week, once a day but sometimes more. haha.

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  • waxingcrescent

    Nothing wrong with it. Guys who lose respect for you are not worth knowing anyways. If you ever do get into a monogamous relationship I think the guy will be happy with you

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  • user#29

    YES MORE GIRLS NEED TO BE LIKE YOU!!!

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  • yessss

    You are lucky that you can. In my country you were already a slut. I want that much sex too without a boyfriend!!

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  • iconfused

    I'd say find a guy you could be steady with, though you may not be a slut, people will think you are.

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  • habu

    You will make some guy very happy of u ever marry.

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  • frend

    OUPS SO MANY GUD AND BAD IDEAS HMMMM....WELL C DEAR ITS NT BEING SLUT OR SO AND ACTUALY U CANT DEFIND IT.EVERYBDY FEELS SEX AND WANA ENJOY EVEN IF THE GIRLS WHO ARE COMMITED OR SAY NT HAVING SEX LIK U DIS DOSNT MEAN THEY DNT FEEL LIK SO OR NT INTERSTD BUT THE DIFFERENC IS THEY KNW HOW TO CONTROL AND U DNT KNOW.FIRST THNG IS TO LEARN TO CONTROL TRY UR BEST U WILL FEEL GUUD AND SECOND THING IF U STILL WANT TO DO GO FR SOME SAFE GUY SAME MEANS ONE WHO WONT MAKE STORIES OR JOKES ON U IN HIS FRENS AND DNT PLAY RISKY ..FIND A SAFE PLACE SAFE GUY AND BE SAFE DATZ ALL

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  • ttty

    Some men and women gave high sex drives and need sex several times a DAY, and some barely ever. So yes, you are quite normal

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  • iin2bhere

    God bless you! Why can't there be more incredible women like you.

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  • Proudfear

    eh yeah probably

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  • kjc143

    You're not a slut we all have sexual needs.

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    • Alexander07

      I need a lay

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  • let'sgorangers

    Hoh ya

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  • uhohoreo

    O really do u??

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  • let'sgorangers

    I don't know if it's normal, but I want in on that

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  • YumInsanity

    Dont worry about it, your a perfectly normal traditional slut :) that doesnt matter though as long as your not a drunk-slut or a bitch-slut, theyre the ones people dont like or respect. also you better be good looking other wise your just being mean. and to everyone who complains about men not being called sluts, i thought that too but then comedian jim jeffries opened my eyes, for a man to be a stud he needs to be charming, good looking, funny, sexy, fashionable and all the other impossible things women want. for a woman to be a slut she just has to be there. "there are midget sluts, theres no midget studs"

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    • sweetlilwookims

      Isn’t that discrimination

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    • chels_87

      And you are an idiot

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  • bunnyboo22

    You slutty, slutty girl!!! HO!!

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  • Ronnie..

    The reason girls are considered sluts is cuz they hav a lower sex drive... So ya ur a slut lol

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  • Slut or not that is immoral.

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  • Jesus Christ...ofvh can even get sex once a week your a slut!!!!!

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  • First, i would like to say u hav a very serious problem. You should seriously consider getting professional help.

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  • regane

    Slut

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  • Slut

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  • violet3

    No offence but yea... you are a slut, why not just go out there and find da right bf for yourself instead of bangin strangers on da streets.

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  • girlygirl87

    well what do you think of yourself? because your right if you were a guy it would be ok, but your not so that's life for ya! but I agree with adidasfvr85 find a steady guy because when guys get this idea of you, your nothing but a tool to them and they'll lose all respect for you.

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    • Alexander07

      I dont think ur a slut just sexually oriented and I would have sex with u as much as u wanted

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  • It's safe to consider you a slut. Find a steady guy that does it for you everytime to shrug off that nasty reputation you have going. Or just get some self-control, slut.

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  • Duke

    yeah that would make you a smut

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