Is it normal to miss someone/something u never had ??

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I went to jr high and high school with a guy named Eric Law (chase High school forest city, north Carolina ) c/o 1999 ... I had the biggest crush on him but never ever got the chance to be his I was forever considered just a "friend" ... I'm 29 now and still dream an think bout him on a daily basis but have no clue where to evn begin on locating him :( ...... I'm desperate to find him but dnt know how or evn why this person is still weighing so heavy on my mind , wht shld I do ?!

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  • mailbox
    13 years ago

    Are you living in the past because you've given up on your future?

    You must have still not found the right guy and this is why your mind dwindles on the past.

    I agree with the others, move on.

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  • calicopenguin
    13 years ago

    Move on with your life. You're living in the past.

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  • imthatguy
    13 years ago

    Get over it and life will be simpler.

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  • southernbarbie16
    13 years ago

    I haven't graduated yet, but I think about this certain guy on a daily basis. He has graduated and moved, and I continue to think about him. Last I heard, him and his girlfriend of 2 years recently broke up, which sparked my intrest even more. The problem is, he is six and a half years older than me. He would never be interested in me and I'm sure I never cross his mind. I don't know why, but I hold onto that .000000000000000000001% that he might like me back.

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  • confused80
    13 years ago

    Thx for all the advice guess it is time to move on ...

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  • BitterSweet
    13 years ago

    I can see where you're coming from, I had a similar situation. It was the feeling of not being worthy that stayed with me for a long time but it was tied to that boy. I think as hard as it might be you really just have to drive forward with new things and let it become your past.

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  • confused80
    13 years ago

    I've checked facebook and nthn :( and he dropped out of high school so don't think they'll hav any up to date info

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  • coltpride10
    13 years ago

    See if he has a facebook maby? Or ask for contact information from the school? Maby you'll see what you've been missing or he changed and your glad he's not your one and only. Good luck!

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