Is it normal to miss my mother

I am a 44 year old woman who mother has passed away in October 2011, I miss her so much. I'm gonna hate Christmas this year Is this Normal?

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89% Normal
Based on 66 votes (59 yes)
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  • grimmbunny

    Yum yes im 22 n my mommy died when i was 7 on 10-31-1997 and i still miss her bunches and i didn't even have her for most of my life but the little times we had together where my best memories and its normal to griff over a close loved one

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  • joybird

    You're privileged to have had a lovely mother and I'm sure she wouldn't want you to be unhappy. Try to think of all the fun times and share the laughter with others.

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  • BurnaBaby27

    Of course it's normal!
    Surround yourself with loved ones for the holidays. I'm sorry for your lose.

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    • BurnaBaby27

      Sorry, I meant loss*.
      I knew I spelled that wrong, smh.

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  • Spend time with the people you love.

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  • LoveLVR

    It's okay to mourn, if you didn't that wouldn't be good. It brings us closer to God. He knows your pain sweetie just put all your trust in him. I'm sorry for your loss and God Bless You.

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  • Lula

    Yes it normal
    The first of everything is the hardest
    The first christmas will be very hard for you

    I lost my mom when I was ten
    I still miss her
    I have lost my brother seven months later, around christmas, I lost my husband
    It was an awful christmas, worst then I thought it would be

    It will be 9 years this christmas, I still miss him. I hate christmas, it's a yearly reminder he is gone. My mom died on my last day of school, the last day was always sad for me.

    It will be get better, next christmas will be easier. This, just remember that others are just as sad, they miss your mom too

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  • Thereisnogod

    Dad died on 4.8.10 and it's still awful. It will get better, just consider it to be a new chapter and a page turned in your life something that you will never forget. You can't change it. You can change how you fell about it

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  • lostnfound

    Sounds like you need medication.

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