Is it normal to miss my ex after 1.5 years??

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he ditched me twice for his ex gf or someone else i dont know. !st time it was after 3 months and the 2nd time after 2 weeks and because of him i also landed in a lot of trouble. but still i miss him. i don't think i'm in love with him now but i think about him every single day and hour and feel like talking to him. he sent me a friend req. on fb a few weeks back but i did not accept it coz i knew that he just wants to do time pass with me.i scold myself when i miss him and thinking about him also makes me depressed.i don't want another boyfriend also coz i don't like anyone now.IIN??why is this happening and how can i stop this??

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  • BlueJeansWhiteShirt
    11 years ago | pl

    Because you haven't moved on and got a new boyfriend, then yes, I think it's normal you miss your ex.
    The sad thing is there are some amazing men out there who will respect you and would never leave you for someone else but I don't think you are even trying to meet some of these men.
    You don't like anyone? Well go out and meet some new people and see if you like them.
    If you genuinely don't want another boyfriend then you can't waste your time moping over a piece of shit that is your ex. You have to find a way to move on.

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  • dontgiveup:)
    11 years ago

    I was actually in a similar situation. My ex bf left to the marines without even saying a goodbye, then we became friends on fb and we talked everyday and I was starting to like him again, but he was talking to another girl! These guys are jerks! I have just moved on, it took a while but bluejeans is right. Go and search for a nice guy, that's what I did.:)

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  • DADNSCAL
    11 years ago

    I second everything BlueJeans said, and I would add that you're obsessed with him. If you examine your life, you'll probably find other patterns of obsession.

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    • goingcrazy
      11 years ago

      i don't ave any obsession

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      • goingcrazy
        11 years ago

        *have

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        • DADNSCAL
          11 years ago

          Add to that denial.

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  • DonnieLighto
    11 years ago

    Start remembering the bad parts of the relationship - the fights, the betrayals, the hurtful words. You're focused on the positives. Once you get a new BF and are happy, you'll ask yourself why you stayed so long with this guy.

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    • goingcrazy
      11 years ago

      i try to focus on the bad parts on the bad parts only. and today again i got a frnd req from him on fb....should i ask him why he's sending me frnd reqs all the time??

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      • mansha
        11 years ago

        Welll this ma first reply on iin !:-).....yea i can und ua pain i too hv experienced thr same ...... ... Things are diificult to move on but truth is life isnt finishid if he is not there wat i say try consideing him 'dead' try thinking as he nvr existed no more he is there on earth !!!!

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