Is it normal to miss her so much?

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This girl and I were together for like three months. We did everything together. I walked her to class and wrote her poems and always told her how beautiful she was when I'd see her in the mornings. We were seperated because I ended up going to a different school. Her parents didn't like that we were together so they cut off all contact between us. She told me she'd love me no matter what and that we'd always be together. The next day, she told me she couldn't do it. She couldn't be gay and be with me, that or just wasn't right. Next thing I know, she's with a guy and pregnant. I think about her a lot. But why do I miss her so much when she's so happy with him? Is this normal?

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Based on 49 votes (41 yes)
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  • Lucyg123
    12 years ago

    Move on

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  • unsure106
    13 years ago

    Good for you for moving on! Even when people really love each other sometimes they just cannot be together. It is time to move on and live in the present. Good luck to you.

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  • Krysisbliss10
    13 years ago

    I think I missed her so much because we were together everyday. Now that I've moved on and don't really have that much contact with her, I'm ok. Some small things make me think of her, but it's not nearly as bad.

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  • plath_seeker
    13 years ago

    My same situation!!! When you figure it out share your secret will ya?

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  • Krysisbliss10
    13 years ago

    @LuluBaby, Ima girl too, and yes it is quite a bitch move.

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  • BoredGuy
    13 years ago

    3months? lol. Not normal.

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  • LuluBaby.(;
    13 years ago

    obviously she just said all of that to have a cover up to make herself look like she "loved"
    you.
    ima girl. and i have to say, thats a bitch move.
    and i would say some things but i wont go there.
    move on.
    sometimes girls dont matter but mostly, she dont deserve you. (:

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  • Savmagic
    13 years ago

    Come on get over it she's a slut. Girls don't fuck with people's hearts say they can't see em and then get knocked up by somebody else the next day if they're not a big fat fuckin sluuuuuuut gtfoi there is going to be a nice little lesbo girl whos gonna want to love the fuck out of you regardless of what anybody says until then Leave this bitch behind

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    I think it's noraml. you probably loved her like, SOOOOOOOO much if you can't stop thinking about her. and i know it will be very hard, because i broke up with a boy in July, and there are time i miss him, but he moved away, and cheated on me, s it couldn't work. but i still think about him. so i think it's very normall.

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  • katiebuglahv
    13 years ago

    *girl
    I thought she said "she couldn't be gay and be with me" or something

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  • SwimBikeRun
    13 years ago

    If she really loved you she would still be in contact with you. Keep looking my friend. You sound like a nice guy.

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