Is it normal to mess up this bad?

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Well, finally found a girl who didn't turn me down outright, but she likes someone else. She's also a friend of mine so I pretty much sent a text saying I didn't want to mess things up with this chick she liked, so I'd just let it go & help her out, cuz I care for her unconditionally. Now I'm thinking that I not only failed to show backbone, but also gave off a "nice guy" vibe that says "ignore me". What do I do?

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  • dappled
    11 years ago

    It depends how much you like her. I will sometimes back off (kind of like you did) if there's competition and it'd cause problems. But if you really like someone, you have to fight for her. You may not have blown your chance completely but if you want to turn this around you have to act quickly and decisively and whatever you do has to have impact.

    I'll be honest with you, though - you haven't helped your chances.

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  • IDiGAFi
    11 years ago

    Oh, fuck. That was you so-terrible mess-up? Fuck off, will you? You made me read that shit for nothing. Take your teen drama somewhere else, a-hole!

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  • GreyWarden
    11 years ago

    To the guy who's name I can't remember, wanna say it ends in saw, sorry using iPod, I considered that. However I just thought "hey, she's your friend. Why not go farther?" So yeah Impretty sure I like her. But thanks for input

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  • ccjigsaw
    11 years ago

    From the first bit "finally found a girl who didn't turn me down outright" I get the sense that you aren't as into her as you say... No offense intended. I think you should move on and try again with someone else

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  • GreyWarden
    11 years ago

    She's not a lesbian. She likes the D too much. She just don't want to date guys at the moment...although your suggestion is now plan b, thanks gravy

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    • Gravy
      11 years ago

      Ha ha sno worries. either she wants to jump your bones or not. If not, life is too short to waste.

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  • Gravy
    11 years ago

    Mr Grey, get a rope and drag her back to your teepee. the next morning if she still wants to bat for the other team, move on and have some self respect. There's nothing more lame than a Dutch boy. Look up In the sky, it's a bird, it's a plane, no it's LESBIMAN.

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  • GreyWarden
    11 years ago

    Sorry just decided to clarify incase it confused anyone. Not implying anyone's stupid.

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  • GreyWarden
    11 years ago

    Ok. To be clear, the girl I like, let's call her Sally, likes my friend, we'll call her Tracy. Sally is mad at the majority of the male population for 2 cases of rape & many douchey BFs. She's not avoiding guys forever, but she still likes Tracy. And me liking her, even passively going after her, is causing confusion. That's the condensed version. More or less.

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  • GreyWarden
    11 years ago

    Well, I prob forgot to mention but the "someone else" is a chick. Also the girl I like is currently pissed at the male population. So even if I tried, which I still am in a much more passive way, I'm probably STILL fucked. But thanks for all the advice/input.

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  • Gravy
    11 years ago

    Jesus Christ mate, you couldn't get a root in a whore house with a pocket full of pineapples. What's next, "I care for you unconditionally, so I've brought my mate along to fuck you for me in case I ruin it" start with a heart ligament before attempting to grow a backbone.

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    • suckonthis9
      11 years ago

      1) Archaic.
      2) Violation of Rule #5, Rule #6, Rule #8 & Rule #10.

      vi·o·la·tion\ˌvī-ə-ˈlā-shən\
      noun
      : the act of violating : the state of being violated: as
      a : infringement, transgression; specifically : an infringement of the rules in sports that is less serious than a foul and usually involves technicalities of play
      b : an act of irreverence or desecration : profanation
      c : disturbance, interruption
      d : rape 2, ravishment

      You just like to rape the Rules, don't you?

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      • Gravy
        11 years ago

        No.
        No offence intended.
        Light hearted jests mostly with Aussie / metaphors. Ever met an Aussie (other than someone from Fountain Lakes)?
        BTW, your username is frightfully offensive, kinda Bart Simpsonish.
        However, point taken, Ms suckonthis9, I apologise for offending your sensitivities and I shall refrain from using the lords name in vain. Have fun in the sun tomorrow, for me, back to sleep in a very uncomfortable dirty bed / floor. Oh, cheese and biscuits, why the bleeding hell hit me with a copy/paste of the Oxford Concise? Some people go to far :-(

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        • suckonthis9
          11 years ago

          Your response contains inaccuracies.
          I am a male creature, not a female creature.
          Who is this feudal magnate that you speak of? Is this the person responsible for causing your hardship?
          Why is this netherworld bleeding?

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          • Gravy
            11 years ago

            Hardship was the grotty bed / floor brought about by an insatiable desire for adventure. Shit, sorry about assuming the Ms title. Nevertheless, a bit of a girl's blouse. Take a teaspoon of cement and harden the ferk up.

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            • NeuroNeptunian
              11 years ago

              The way you speak is fucking hilarious. I heard the Aussie accent in my head as I read your initial post. I look forward to seeing you around XD

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  • Terence_the_viking
    11 years ago

    Friend Zoned.

    That sucker is a bitch.

    Looks like them the break.

    Faceplant dude and not in her vagina.

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