Is it normal to meet a guy,get along, then they ignore you?

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I met this guy and we got along and used to meet and talk everyday. I used to be flirty(cos thats what im like) and he used to always ask me if he could kiss me. i refused. He was like oh I llove you i wanna marry you i wanna have children with you etc etc. But i was like im sorrry im single but thats how i wanna remain. Then he lost all enthusiasm to contact me. he only replies 10% of my messages. It pains me.he doesnt have any interest to know me. it hurts like hell, cos i have never got along with someone/a guy so well. So i texted hima and sed like just becuase i dont wanna be ur gf doent mean that you have to distance urself from me, but if u want to thats fine, if u dont wanna be close friends. he realy confuses me with his behaviour. do u think i should just forget him?

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  • Trismegistus
    13 years ago

    Complicated?Confusing,Maybe. It's just that,this guy you used to talk to and hang out with doesn't like girls who "don't know what they want".
    In his twisted mind if you act flirty then refuse to kiss him,you are not worth it.Got it?
    He only sticks with girls who don't act flirty just to prove to themselves they are attractive and gain some self confidence out of it.Got it?
    It's obvious to them that a girl being "filrty" must not say sentences like:I'm single and that what I wanna remain.Anyway,this guy,really weird one.I guess saying:I love you I wanna have children with you and blabla,was a polite christian way to ask you or get you to make out.And that's just so LAME.Guys like that would rather go for a girlfriend they can "use" every time they feel like it,than just a friend wanting to make out from time to time. You two are just running different games.You wanna date more than one guy and decide later which one to stick with.He wants to stick with the first gal accepting and going all blushy,warm and fuzzy and runny because of his early and not believable proposal to get married.Got it?
    Now I must evaporate.Clown business.

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  • kingofthedust
    13 years ago

    Why are you so complicated???

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  • almostunreadable
    13 years ago

    You are complicated person.

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