Is it normal to masturbate this way?

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I'm a male, A lot of times in bed I get horny... you know, when you go to bed or wake up and don't get out for awhile. I sleep with my chest facing down, I like to masturbate the same way because I don't feel like turning over or getting out of bed to jerk off in front of a computer screen. I've done this since I was in 8th grade, I'll be in my boxers, and rub my penis from the outside of my boxers using my hands (the tips of my fingers). After awhile I cum, yes, in my boxers... I always change a pair afterward, but it's just so much more convenient to get off this way. Maybe I'm overthinking this and it's more common than I know, but does anyone else do this? Are there any medical repercussions to do masturbating this way?

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  • Boojum
    5 years ago

    I'm not clear what you're concerned about. Ejaculating in your boxers doesn't seem weird to me if you're intending to put on a fresh pair when you get up anyway. That seems a reasonable way to deal with your semen.

    You mention sleeping face-down. Some people believe masturbating by humping your bed isn't a great idea because you're training yourself to need much more friction than you'll ever get in vaginal, oral or anal sex. Related to this is something called Masturbation Death Grip Syndrome (DGS). Doctors are apparently sceptical about whether it really exists, but my personal experience suggests it's real. There's lots of information about DGS on the internet, so Google and see if anything relates to your technique.

    McBean is a little more concerned about urinary tract infections than I think is really justified, since anything in your urethra after masturbation has obviously come from your own body, but I think he makes a good point about using lube for masturbation.

    Lots of teenage guys get into the routine of jerking off as fast as possible. Sometimes, this is because they're afraid of getting caught in the act, and sometimes it's because guys tend to see coming as the whole point of masturbation, so they don't waste any time getting there.

    Using lube at least occasionally and spending some time exploring edging allows guys to learn a lot about their sexual response and how to control their orgasm by knowing just how much stimulation they can take before they go over the edge. They usually also discover that teasing themselves is a lot more fun than whacking off fast and hard and nutting as soon as possible.

    Having said that, you talk about using just the tips of your fingers on the outside of your boxers and coming "after a while", so maybe you've already discovered all this.

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  • lordofopinions
    5 years ago

    Hey if it works for you then have fun! :) When I was your age I would roll on my back to wank. Each to their own.

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  • McBean
    5 years ago

    Buy a tube of personal lubricant from the drug store. Put a bit in the palm of your hand and rub it around. It will make your hand wet and slippery like a real vagina. It's a good idea to wash your hands before you jerk off to avoid urethral infections. At least use hand sanitizer. Also helps to take a piss after you shoot your wad. That rinses the germs out of the inside of your cock.

    Sex education should at least teach kids masturbation hygiene with movies and shit. Anyway, have a good wank.

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