Is it normal to masterbate to "sexting" strangers while so is at work?

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I have always had a thing for sexting/chatting/emailing with strangers. This probably started when I was a teenager and continued through adulthood. I have watched porn to get me off, but something about exchanging fantasies with a stranger gets me going. Everyone has different turnons and whatnot so that doesn't bother me. I am more wondering that now in a loving, exciting, stable, and all around great relationship is it wrong to do this? We have a great sex life, and I love my partner with all my being. Yet, when he isn't around or accessible I usually pleasure myself. I have no relationship with the strangers or even care to, it's just something that turns me on in the moment.

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  • Couman
    8 years ago

    Does your SO know about this? If not it seems like a recipe for trouble.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      No, he does not know, but I also have not done it while I'm with him. I feel as though it is not right. If I could sext with him instead of strangers would be ideal, but his job is not permitting of that.

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      • Couman
        8 years ago

        Well, then I'm inclined to agree, it's not right. I personally wouldn't go so far as to class it as cheating, but some people would see it that way.

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  • orgasmio7
    8 years ago

    I think this is VERY normal. Ultimately, it would be good if you could draw your partner into this, by degrees - I would not be surprises if he came to find it very erotic too. I have been looking for a site where I can mutually exhibitionist masturbate with ordinary women. Also share/exchange more extreme [though not gross or cruel] fantasies.

    You are meeting your needs & helping others meet theirs.

    I would be most grateful for any 'pointers'.......or if you wanted direct contact.....my motto, sexually, is that I always put the woman's pleasure above my own!

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  • RoseIsabella
    8 years ago

    Sounds like you're cheating on him.
    :-(

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  • Arm0se
    8 years ago

    That's cheating in my book. Does your partner know?

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