Is it normal to marry her so my baby will share our name?

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I have been with her for 4 years and we are best friends first and lovers second. We get along so good and enjoy all the same shit. We like going to NFL games and acting crazy, going out on weekend gambling trips, and honestly occasionally doing things orally only authority women. So I have a great girl and she's smoking hot. She really wants to be married more now because we recently had a son together. She wants to make sure his name and hers match so it doesn't seem weird around schools and other places later on. I was married before and swore I wouldn't do it again but I really see us together forever so doesn't it make sense to go ahead and do it since she has given me everything I ever wanted and much more(if you know what I mean).

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  • norm
    12 years ago

    When you have a child, what YOU want doesn't matter any more. The child comes first.

    Man-up. Be responsible. Do what is best for the child.

    Your son needs your involvement and your name.

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  • chasbrielle
    12 years ago

    Joybird, your right. It's all about love and I do love her and my son more than anything. It's crazy what love will make you do. Anyway, thanks fir the good advice.

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  • joybird
    12 years ago

    If you see the two of you together forever, then why not? She needs a sense of security and wants your son to know that you love them both so much that you wanted to commit to them for life.

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  • hokisgurl
    12 years ago

    Um since I'm a woman. It's a womanly thing But she obviously loves you and wants to be with you forever and just because you have first failed marriage U shouldn't marry again u have a child. And if you two are able to make it work marriage is great. She prolly grown up with values and believe that having a family u need to be married I believe that too and maybe you don't love her that much so u don't think she's worth taking the risk for And that is horrible to a woman but it's your life hopefully u can make a good decision

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  • KickTheDog
    12 years ago

    my parents didn't marry and I hate them for that

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