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For some reason, I love making myself cry. I mean, I hate crying. I guess it's just the masochist in me; I'm actually crying as I write this. IIN?
hmmmm, interesting one this. It largely depends on whether you are a boy or a girl.
If you're a girl then, for the most part, crying is not only normal, it's expected sometimes. If you're a bloke then you're in a spot of trouble old bean.
there's nothing wrong with you, as long as you're not hurting yourself. getting your emotions out makes you feel good. but my question is, how do you make yourself cry?
Sometimes, when I am sad... I have to force myself to cry, by myself away from everyone just to get the fuck over it. I hate crying, but I hate being sad for days too. Kinda like having a splinter, and you dont want to go digging for it, but it's better out than in.
well... it depends how you're doing it... if you're not inflicting pain to yourself, just telling yourself to cry, i think it's ok because crying releases chemicals that make you feel good, so it's kind of like masturbating or getting high, i guess...
A good question to ask yourself is why are you crying? For sure, crying can feel good if you are releasing some emotion, or maybe you're in touch with your feelings...
Either way, there's nothing good or bad with it, all depends what you do with it. If you cry, because you empathize with a person or thing's hard time for example, i'd say that's generally more useful. Just my 2 cents of course!