Is it normal to make up stories to get your crush's attention?

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I have a crush on this guy but i do no want to make the first move. We are really good friends and we talk on a daily basis, but sometimes i feel like he's slipping away, for instance he doesn't talk to me for a couple of days and i feel like i miss him. So, sometimes I not so much as make up stories but tweak what actually happened just a bit to make it sound more dramatic. He has a tendency to get really concerned whenever I tell him about a not so great incident that happened to me, and it makes me feel good to know that he cares about me and doesn't want me to get hurt. But lately i have been feeling like I am going to turn into a pathological liar if i dont stop. And if something does end up happening between us i dont want it to be based on lies or "white lies". Is this normal?

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  • Katywompus
    12 years ago

    Not a very good idea. The thing with telling lies is you have to remember what you said, otherwise youl screw yourself. You have to tell a lie to keep the first lie going and then add a lie to that, etc. Bad news. I knew someone like that. I think its a bad idea. There's gotta be another way to get this guys attention. Do you think he would think you were cool for making stuff up? Probably not. Maybe just send a christmas card with your boobs on it :p

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  • YellowCrayons
    12 years ago

    Its normal, But not very smart. Lies are never good in relationships. Even little white lies. What would you do if most of the things he tells you are lies?

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    So you saying lies to get attention. That's too normal.

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