Is it normal to make out with your best friend

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I have a best friend from past 3.5 years and we are bestest of friends. From past one year we started getting physical with each other but we were in our limits, and then after few months started to get irritated with our practise and started to ignore and fighting (fought for 2 months with no contact with each other) and after 2 months he came back saying sorry and blah blah. I actually have a problem with one of his friend and he said he's deleted her from everywhere and I got normal with him. Now after our patch up we got physical to good extend (ofcoursewe didn't have sex but we started making out) but he still calls me his best friend and that irritates me. I always had feeling for him since day 1 but never expressed. I at times think he tries to gives me hint but then he himself would clarify that u are my bestest friend and I don't want to risk u for anybody or anything. Can anyone please tell me is this normal can best friends get so physical?

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  • Shugaboom
    10 years ago

    I think there are boundaries in friendship, so I do not think is normal to make out with your bestfriend. However if it happened, do not worry, it won't ruin your friendship.

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    Friendships between girls and boys are stupid and pointless. One of them always develops feelings for the other and the other doesn't take them serious or is confused/undecided. Anyway, it's stupid.

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  • DiamondGirl
    10 years ago

    Bullshit there are no male/female "friends" don't kid your self.

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    • noodle76
      10 years ago

      Im a girl and im.a lesbian and i have plenty of male friends. Some of them are gay.

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  • truelife23
    10 years ago

    I MUST say I am I nthe same situation darling, Made out hwit this guy whe know each other for at least 17 years lol
    and im 23 so do the math .Whe play ect whe know our limits and us as well whe fight break up made up afther a few months 2 or 3 I think.
    Now in 2014 things are getting more serious going out talking on the phone all the tiem or texting ect
    and whe like it so just enjoy but make sure the other person is feelin the same way as you do.Make a reason for htat some one to come over and talk it out .Put that cards on the table and go from there and add some making out never know how the night could end ....

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  • vagman30
    10 years ago

    You ever heard of "friends with benefits?" You can get as physical as you want, and still be friends at the same time. Even if the two of you get bored of being physical with each other, you can still remain as friends. The only downside, is 1 of you will develop romantic feelings for the other.

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  • Shelbs
    10 years ago

    Assuming you're female since you're jealous of another woman... no, I don't think you can get so physical with your friend and still remain friends. You are a perfect example as to why. You had feelings for him and he didn't reciprocate those feelings. It can be assumed that you'll get hurt because of it.

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