Is it normal to make my fiance jealous?

I and my fiance have dated for 2yrs and 8months now. We do love each other very much, but i think that i love him the most. I visit him every weekend, most times i stay with him a month or more. He knew too well that i'm faithful to him, i can say that he truly trust me. But him? he is not always faithful to me, even if he does'nt accept the fact that i knew of his infidelity, disloyalties. He sincerely cares for me, he loves me even when he does his bullshits. The fact is this, it seems he is taking me for granted, because he knows of how much i love him and want to spend the rest of my life with him. Most times when he does something bad, i would always be the one to beg for the sake of peace to reign. Guys you know what? in every disputes we are having, i would end up pleading while he feels like the master. Well, i do that because i love him, i always feel that not talking or been with him is going to make him look out to other girls, i miss more of him and love him the most when we are'nt in good term, it makes me accept his mistakes as mine. Though, at-times when i'm at fault, i do plead. He finds it difficult to say the word " I'M SORRY" let alone "FORGIVE ME" There is a lot more other; but to be frank, i want him to earn my love, i want him to always want me the more, i want to see that passion in him. I'm tired of him controlling me at any point in time. Would i rather go through fields of thorns just to reach the best rose? Would i rather displease myself always just to please him? I thought of making him jealous, but at-times jealousy is'nt good in a relationship. But even if making him jealous is the only option i had to make him stop his jerks, i don'nt know what to do to make him jealous.