Is it normal to make jokes about my mom dying?

I think humor is a very good way to deal with grief and it helps reassure friends that they're not accidentally really putting their foot in their mouth. I think it's a positive thing! Sublimation, baby!

My mother and father died when I was 7, and I do the same thing sometimes. I like to crack irreverent jokes here and there and remind people it can be ok to talk about. I think you're doing quite well and I don't think it's "messed up" at all. ^-^

It is ignorant to make jokes like that, you cocksucker!

kind of sad

i never herd anything like this sory

I do the same with my dead sister when people ask about my family, I tell them about her, and make jokes and stuff, I do it because I've gotten over it

I voted yes but in reality it doesn't matter. Your Mom has died and its a fact that your using in a humorous way. It doesn't mean you don't love her, quite the opposite. I'm sure you'd have a laugh with her when she was alive why not now she's not here. Life goes on and I'm sure your Mom would want it this way. What we say in jest isn't necessarily how we feel inside. Please don't even stress about this.

Humor is a necessity for me so I think its normal

As long as they aren't disrespecting her in some way then it is a good way to deal with. If you loved her in the first place then I doubt they're any horrible jokes. It shouldn't be up to people how to deal with tragedy because people deal with different things in their own way with whatever helps them most. I think your mom would have wanted this instead of you feeling sad about it all the time whenever you thought about her.

u r just proving to others that u r nt sad

its ok to relax about it but horrible to make jokes about it

I remember playing a game online my friend made a your mom joke to this kid and he said his mom was dead. A couple minutes later his mom came in and yelled at him for having a foul mouth when he started yelling very rude things at us.