Is it normal to lust after older men?

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My EX step father and I had a very unique relationship. I was his shadow, We did everything together. Work on houses, go fishing and listened to the same music. I was molested by him when I was ten. I was diagnosed with PTSD and since then I've been very sexual towards older men, not knowing the difference between right and wrong. Doctors told me it was because of what this man had done to me and the trauma he caused. Well, Im 24 now and for some reason have the need to let any older man take me into his room, vehical, etc., and let them torture me and touch me in places I was touched as a child. Does this mean im a slut? Not able to know the differnce between whats ok and whats not ok? IS it normal??

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  • brio
    12 years ago

    You don't have to have everything in common to have a good relationship, and you don't have to have ANYTHING in common to have good sex. What you like is what you like, and nobody can tell you it's wrong as long as everyone involved is a consenting adult.

    I'm an older guy (47) who loves younger women. I find them delightfully open-minded, fun, and unspoiled compared with women my own age. . . and I like to be with someone who is young and hot enough for me to physically worship in bed.

    The problem for me is that I feel like I can't make the first move on the women I'm interested in, for fear of being creepy. I'm up for a relationship but not clingy or jealous or needy, so if a young woman is interested, she just needs to let me know, and let me know what her boundaries are.

    So, do you live in Northern California? I'd love to meet some interested young women! :)

    Write me: atomdebris(at)gmail(dot)com

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  • flax
    12 years ago

    Umm....okay...

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  • KickTheDog
    12 years ago

    As long as you have fun!
    There are many older men lusting for young flesh. Sounds like a win-win situation for me.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Grr I'm only 15 but I sometimes wish I would get called over by some really old guy and let him do anything he wants.

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