Is it normal to love your mate but want them to give up and cheat?

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i love my wife, everyone things we're great together and our life is perfectly swell, one problem my wife spends more time with tv , iphone, friends, family food as far as fun times....we are in a place where every other day shes either complaining about me, fussing @ me , comanding me to do something asking me to do something, doubting me you name it... i try to surprise her w little things all the time , i write litte notes massages etc etc i know i dont get every thing done everyday but who does? shes been telling me how shes been having fun dreams with her coworker and because of all this the past 2 to 3 years everything reminds me of this girl i know from years ago and i cant stop thinking of her i want to get remarried but i know i have to be faithful.....theres 2 years of dating and 4 plus years of marriage stories folks!

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  • joybird
    12 years ago

    Totally normal. You're just settling into the married routine after 6 years and ready for the '7 year itch'. This is where you'll think the grass is greener and either destroy your marriage or work through it.

    You got married while still in the lovey dovey stage - so now I say suck it up!

    I got married after 6 years, and chose to have a baby 8 years after that!

    What's wrong with you all - making life-changing decisions on a whim?!

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  • lostred
    12 years ago

    talk to your wife about it, explain how its making you feel... you cant just keep expecting things to improve without a little intervention

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  • Notyouagain
    12 years ago

    Stay strong. Don't give in to temptation.

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    • shade_ilmaendu
      12 years ago

      If his wife isnt treating him very well, why shouldnt he get out of the relationship and seek greener pastures? That is once hes tried as hard as he feels he wants to to keep her around.

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  • Theresa456
    4 years ago

    Life has taught me that you can’t control someone’s loyalty. No matter how good you are to them it doesn’t mean that they will treat you the same way. I have been married to my husband for years with no idea he was cheating. Suddenly i started noticing changes in behavior, i suspected something was wrong. So i confided in a friend who convinced and introduced me to Williamsdhackghost. He was able to hack into my husband mobile phone, Text messages, Call logs, IG, browser history, deleted messages, Emails and WhatsApp . It seemed as though my life was spinning out of control getting to find out he has someone else. I filed for a divorce just could not continue with lies. If you feel you are been exploited in your marriage and you need proof. I suggest you contact Williamsdhackghost at g-mail dot com or +1(352)354-3740,Whatsapp or Mail him for your spy and hacking job and be free, just like me today.

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  • ginsters101
    9 years ago

    Do you think she is screwing this co-worker? (she probably is) Then, if you want out you've got to catch her. Be warned this can take you to pretty dark place (I felt really wrong testing her panties for semen - but not as wronged as I felt when the test was positive)

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    12 years ago

    sounds like you need marriage counseling.

    she can't make it work if she's spending her time focusing on other men

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  • usernameuser
    12 years ago

    WOW, shocking to see how many people just bolt when things get tough. I am sure your wife has just as many things to complain about as you, so stop pointing fingers and talk to your wife rather than to post your feelings on a web page. There are only two people whose opinions matter in a relationship, and if you want to resolve your problems you should turn to each other not to other people for advice. The grass is NOT greener on the other side.

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